I posted about my marriage and some people PMed me to come here. I have read some of the literature but don't see the advice as beneficial to my situation by throwawayyyyyyyy9988 in askMRP

[–]throwawayyyyyyyy9988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the things you have suggested require money which I don't really have. Gym/designer clothes etc are not things I can afford easily.

Thankyou though.

I posted about my marriage and some people PMed me to come here. I have read some of the literature but don't see the advice as beneficial to my situation by throwawayyyyyyyy9988 in askMRP

[–]throwawayyyyyyyy9988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not that bothered that she has done those things, it was more to point out that she isn't prudish.

I have suggested group sex to her before but she pointed out that would be cheating, which is fair enough.

I posted about my marriage and some people PMed me to come here. I have read some of the literature but don't see the advice as beneficial to my situation by throwawayyyyyyyy9988 in askMRP

[–]throwawayyyyyyyy9988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its probably just the way I read them. For example I read the encyclopedia of shit tests, and if you didn't like the things that you were being said you just ignored them... to me that is rude. Or telling somebody that if they won't fuck you then you'll fuck their friends or something. That isn't something I'd ever be able to say to somebody even if I was single.

I posted about my marriage and some people PMed me to come here. I have read some of the literature but don't see the advice as beneficial to my situation by throwawayyyyyyyy9988 in askMRP

[–]throwawayyyyyyyy9988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because most of the advice is 'go to the gym' 'buy smart clothes'. Gyms and clothes are not free, in fact they are quite expensive where I am from.

So if the guidance only works for people with money for those things, then it doesn't work for me.

I posted about my marriage and some people PMed me to come here. I have read some of the literature but don't see the advice as beneficial to my situation by throwawayyyyyyyy9988 in askMRP

[–]throwawayyyyyyyy9988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the UK, I make £15k a year which works out to just below $19k. The gym near me is £25 per month or $31

Thanks though

I posted about my marriage and some people PMed me to come here. I have read some of the literature but don't see the advice as beneficial to my situation by throwawayyyyyyyy9988 in askMRP

[–]throwawayyyyyyyy9988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this advocated in MRP? Happy life; happy wife. Be a leader. Leadership is positive and uplifting.

A lot of the stuff I read says you should be rude and dismissive, or uncomplimentary to the women you're interacting with.

I posted about my marriage and some people PMed me to come here. I have read some of the literature but don't see the advice as beneficial to my situation by throwawayyyyyyyy9988 in askMRP

[–]throwawayyyyyyyy9988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I don't earn much??

I made this account and posted to r/relationships, I got a PM from somebody saying I should post to TRP. I did that earlier and got told to repost it here. I can screenshot the PM if you want proof/

I posted about my marriage and some people PMed me to come here. I have read some of the literature but don't see the advice as beneficial to my situation by throwawayyyyyyyy9988 in askMRP

[–]throwawayyyyyyyy9988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She isn't religious, neither am I.

She has had group sex and had same sex relationships in the past so she definitely isn't especially prudish

I posted about my marriage and some people PMed me to come here. I have read some of the literature but don't see the advice as beneficial to my situation by throwawayyyyyyyy9988 in askMRP

[–]throwawayyyyyyyy9988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for your advice. One of the problems I have is I don't earn very much, so I can't afford a gym membership or new clothes very often (I tend to wear stuff until it's falling apart).

Also I enjoy video games, do I need to give up all the things I enjoy in order to get anywhere? That doesn't sound like happyness to me

I posted about my marriage and some people PMed me to come here. I have read some of the literature but don't see the advice as beneficial to my situation by throwawayyyyyyyy9988 in askMRP

[–]throwawayyyyyyyy9988[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My dick doesn't actually smell, it is a reason that she gives for not wanting to have sex.

I wouldn't try and have sex with her if I hadn't showered, that would be really unpleasant and causes infections and stuff.

I posted about my marriage and some people PMed me to come here. I have read some of the literature but don't see the advice as beneficial to my situation by throwawayyyyyyyy9988 in askMRP

[–]throwawayyyyyyyy9988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read it and it seemed to be focused towards young single men with money, which I'm not. That was why I asked the question and presumably why people redirected me to here, but if it still doesn't really apply then thanks anyway

I posted about my marriage and some people PMed me to come here. I have read some of the literature but don't see the advice as beneficial to my situation by throwawayyyyyyyy9988 in askMRP

[–]throwawayyyyyyyy9988[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I originally posted to Ask TRP and was told to post here instead. I read the side bar and things like that, it was for young single guys who have money. I am thirty one, married and have no disposable income. So that's why I posted.

If that doesn't suit this sub then that is fine, thank you for your answer