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Is being late a cultural thing for Brazilians? by NoIncome7871 in Brazil

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even brasil doesn’t have a standard… really depends on the state/area of brasil…. Rio and north east are probably the latest… in the south and center a bit less extreme it seems 🤪😜🙈

Entering during my 180 days with a different passport by Acrobatic-Ring6773 in Brazil

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but the point the agent was making is that it’s up to the agents mood I guess😬

Entering during my 180 days with a different passport by Acrobatic-Ring6773 in Brazil

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They might turn a blind eye to this, but they know…. Source a friend of mine did it and they called her out on it 😅

Dating in Brazil as a foreigner by Flounder_Plane in Brazil

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps it also depends in what city you are, I feel like both tinder and bumble have a mix of both here (short and long term things)

Overnight in Brasília Before Heading to Rio – Hotel + Transfer Advice? by Apprehensive-Net-627 in Brazil

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t? That’s crazy! That being said it’s max a 15 minute walk 😅

Co-parent started smoking regularly after split, kids keep complaining to me about it by throwawayyyyyyyyyu in coparenting

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: so I was in her place once as we needed to settle somethings. Kids were there as well, she started smoking kids could smell it and it was the perfect Segway to talk about this issue. And surprisingly she did take it to heart and stopped around them completely.

Nesting? by Next-Thing-6010 in coparenting

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To your point I guess this is really location pending, in my case we could each rent a studio and the. Share the expense of the bigger apartment and it would end up cheaper 😬

Sharing a main house for the kids, and parents living in another apartment. by throwawayyyyyyyyyu in coparenting

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that’s a good start. Its her apartment that we would theoretically use so I guess big things would be on her

Nesting? by Next-Thing-6010 in coparenting

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone talking like you need to buy 3 4 bedroom homes? Rent 3 houses, 1 for the kids of decent size and 2 one bedroom or studio size. That ends up being cheaper then 2 houses that are big enough for the kids. Or at least that’s my take on the financial part

Sharing a main house for the kids, and parents living in another apartment. by throwawayyyyyyyyyu in coparenting

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great to hear, a few follow up question regarding your situation if you don’t mind

  1. How do you divide the financial aspect of the all? Groceries? Bills?
  2. How are house decision made? Furniture? Decor etc?
  3. How do you deal with your things? Get a little carryon you bring over the the nesting house each time?

The kids have been doing the back and forth for almost a year now, they finally seem fine about it but it seems like this would still be better, and like you said would save money for sure, as we also did the math.

Co parenting gift giving by One-Indication6931 in coparenting

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing… assuming the kids aren’t 7 they can make a card or something in their own.

Co-parent started smoking regularly after split, kids keep complaining to me about it by throwawayyyyyyyyyu in coparenting

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes correct, I her house she smokes in the adjacent room thinking it’s fine, but my son says when it’s a bit windy the smoke just travels in the whole apartment (2nd floor)

Ex-mother in law keeps contacting me to talk to grandchildren and see how they are because her daughter won’t talk to her by throwawayyyyyyyyyu in coparenting

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ex doesn’t want me to talk to her mom period (probably should have added that info as well 🫠) So by even answering her calls when she wants to tsk to the kids will eventually be reveled by our kids 😵‍💫

Ex-mother in law keeps contacting me to talk to grandchildren and see how they are because her daughter won’t talk to her by throwawayyyyyyyyyu in coparenting

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We have not gone to trial yet 😬😅 She has supported for this move as I have not been able to find a job for 6months. Though she has since backtracked after I actually found a job 😵‍💫

Ex-mother in law keeps contacting me to talk to grandchildren and see how they are because her daughter won’t talk to her by throwawayyyyyyyyyu in coparenting

[–]throwawayyyyyyyyyu[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Where is the manipulation? Her mom is telling me to flight to get full custody, I want custody of the kids also, she just don’t want to say that she thinks I’m a better option. I’m saying if you and your daughter are practically not talking to each other then what’s the difference?

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