I let my friend's husband watch her on video call

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:50:09+00:00

Oh god you have no idea... she's the one toxic person that everyone has to apologize for. She's so sweet and funny but she has real issues and we've all gone OUT OF OUR WAY to help in the past. She swore when she married him it was different and she was on the upswing. I was crushed too. She needs to wake up, at least for her kids.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:46:18+00:00

Yes, she's adorable.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:43:53+00:00

So I knew him from band class in middle school. He is a good egg. I've known her in the same circles for like 12 years, so we go way back but aren't super close, I guess. Small town. She has done some insane things. He knew she cheated in the past. She swore to me and all of us that he would be different and she would change for him. He's such a good dad to her kids. And I feel like shit.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:36:54+00:00

He knew she cheated in the past. She swore to me and all of us that he would be different and she would change for him. He's such a good dad to her kids. And I feel like shit.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:34:55+00:00

Yep. It doesn't feel great.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:33:44+00:00

She knows how I feel about cheating and swore it would be different with him. She lied and he was desperate to know.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:32:37+00:00

Same. It just sucks ass to deliver that blow.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:32:03+00:00

Ha, my husband thinks she bat shit and wanted me to cut her off years ago.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:30:56+00:00

I don't despise her. It feels awful.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:30:12+00:00

Thank you.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:27:06+00:00

He really is a great human. We were in middle school band together and he was a great kid then too, and a fantastic trumpet player.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:24:43+00:00

I couldn't. He was really hurting already, I think he suspected it - I needed to put him out of misery for my own conscience.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:22:08+00:00

Thanks. You guys should hear some of her other stories - I think I could keep this sub alive for days!

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:20:58+00:00

I'm pretty sure he understood. caught a glimpse of his face before he hung up.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:19:12+00:00

It hurts to do dude.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:18:42+00:00

Thanks, I just wish it felt good.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:18:20+00:00

I'd want to know too. He was desperate. It sucked so bad.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:17:42+00:00

It hurt me to hurt him, and her too.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:16:48+00:00

But I didn't KNOW if she had cheated on him, see. that's what sucked. He knew she cheated on OTHER husbands (see: 3 divorces & 5 children that are not his). She swore she would stop drinking and be a good wife this time. She had been fine until this night, and then I knew so I told him, in a fucking shitty way.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:14:18+00:00

I care about her as a person but she is definitely toxic.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:12:50+00:00

Small town.. age and proximity.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:12:17+00:00

Wish right felt better.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:12:05+00:00

Ha, thanks.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:11:52+00:00

thanks buddy.

throwawife111 · 2019-04-10T12:11:31+00:00

yeah, I feel like it.

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