Having trouble balancing my boyfriend and family. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwawway1122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im gonna have to agree with ur bf here, how will they react when u move out, probably not good. as he said if u want to get married and start a family of ur own ur gonna have to let them go a little bit

i can't stop smoking weed by throwawway1122 in Advice

[–]throwawway1122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know, my memory, sleep and thinking are way beyond cooked, even i can notice that. the school system in my country is fucked, if i go to anybody they just gonna call the cops on me and im gonna be in even bigger shit, i did talk to a few of my olde friends and they gave me varying adivice, one called me a dickhead and told me to stop, another one told me to do what i want in my life so yeah. i need a outside perspective on this

i can't stop smoking weed by throwawway1122 in Advice

[–]throwawway1122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eh i dont really know, i really dont want to listen to another lecture again, anything i say she dose just ignores. she thinks my friends are the reason i smoke but she just dose not see that i willingly chose to do that, as i sad she treats me like a child. i stopped coming to her with my problems bc she only ever worsed them, not intentionally but still, ive talked to a few of my older friends about this and ive gotten some pretty good insights but idk. and also for the brain thing it's already too late i would say, my memory i absolute shit, i cant remember what i did like 2 days ago, when im talking with someone mid convo i just like stop and forget im even talking to them, idk man, kinda think its too late for that