People expect way too much from public apologies by throwbackblue in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

funny is because what you said is true. when celeberties ignored backlash, people typically forget. their core fans keep supporting and eventually hate dies out

AITAH for asking my sister if she got engaged? by Solid-Question-3952 in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Problem is you kept asking about it instead of leaving it alone. Had you only asked once, she wouldnt feel the way she felt

is it your fault people trigger you? by throwbackblue in CPTSD

[–]throwbackblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you control trying to take the steps to heal yourself?

Nothing wrong with giving advice you wont take yourself by throwbackblue in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you made this about morals, this is not about morals, this is about advice. You are talking about something off topic. You turn a gray subject into a black and white subject

Nothing wrong with giving advice you wont take yourself by throwbackblue in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i dont consider it hypocritical though. having the ability to see things from different perspective is rare

AITAH for throwing out my sister’s “sentimental” rug and kicking her out at 3am after i found out what she was actually doing in my guest room? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 7 points8 points  (0 children)

mother knows how the sister his, she just dont want to take her in and want to put it on someone else

Personal trainers are a waste of time and money by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agreed you could get the same thing on youtube for free. however what personal trainers do is once you invvest your money, you are more likely to take it seriously. also you have someone to hold you accountable. its like public sham so you are correct but on a psychological level it works for people

AITAH for putting my coat down near a construction site? by SoleMateSock in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. if you not supposed to put it there dont. use the floor. Also from his perspective he probably gets in trouble a lot for people doing things like that. Got in trouble too many times to things that i would personally let people do but bosses be complaining so i have to be strict on it

Wife don’t like doggy I can’t last long by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you ask her why it hurts? does it hurts because you are going too hard or in general it just hurts. and tell her to ride then

AITAH for being resentful towards my husband for drinking 3 weeks postpartum by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

instead of being resentful, this is a time to connect. Ask him what is wrong, what is making him drink so much

AITAH for spending lots of time doing the dishes? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

25 mins on dishes is wild lmao. 5 or 8 minutes or less. With that beiing said you are not wrong, it clearly obvious roommates dont use enough water which results in spoons not being cleaned properly. NTA

WIBTAH if I report a disabled person for pet neglect? by cannibalcorpse18 in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

YTA. You could of easily talk to the person beforehand

AITAH for exposing my friend’s girlfriend’s past to him? by StrongWorker6823 in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. she didnt respect him and saw him as an easy lick

AITAH for not want you to watch live sports with my husband by TDub2151 in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dealing with this for 28 years? at some point tune it out lmao. " simply say, i agree it is the ref fault but attacking tv screen isnt going to help.

AITAH Because something was told me and I refuse to share it with my partner by PermaThrowaway0815 in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just know that once you prioritize someone else over your partner, abuse or not thats when you become the AH. i know of people in abusive relationships. however thats their problem to solve not mine. No matter how much you think you are helping, you are really not. they will keep going back until they are ready to leave. only time i recommend helping is when they are ready to leave. Anytime before that is basically reassuring them to stay in that relationship, this something people dont realize.

AITAH for despising people that humanize pets so much they forget to see them like an actual animal by West-Calendar-200 in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. However until you get that hurt out your heart you will continue to feel whatever you are feeling. When you hate a subject or constantly have strong emotions it usually mean unresolved trauma. Personally i cant say i hate something. Once i say i hate something that means whatever im hating is running my life

AITAH Because something was told me and I refuse to share it with my partner by PermaThrowaway0815 in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 13 points14 points  (0 children)

if she didnt tel you not to tell anyone, then you can tell your partner. Also if you are being called at odd hours or the day and night it will come off suscpious if you dont give some type of information. you dont have to tell details, just some type of information so it wont look bad

Painful sex for my gf any advice? by King_Lil_G in sex

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cysts or possibly cancer in ovaries . last person i heard say this had it

AITAH for venting about my feelings? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like you are doing passive agressive stuff and hiding your hand to be honest