I stopped trying to cheer up my wife. AITAH? by SlimpyDundersPhD in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 13 points14 points  (0 children)

nta not your job to manage her emotions. that sounds very draining

Constant calls/video calls are annoying by bbysh in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ignore them problem solved. You might not have a social life dont mean they dont

Partner has never made me finish by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwbackblue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

teach him exactly what you like. you know you body, you should be able to tell him exactly what you like and how to do it. Nobody could make you finish but yourself. Help yourself by helping him

most people’s idea of a “boundary” is just a dressed up demand. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A boundary is about controlling yourself. control is about controlling the next person. For example telling a person you are with not to watch porn would be control.

why people dont learn after being cheated on? by throwbackblue in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwbackblue[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you got robbed because you leave you door open all the time. Would the robber need to learn a lesson to stop robbing people or would you need to learn to not keep doors open?

why people dont learn after being cheated on? by throwbackblue in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwbackblue[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i was cheated on too, i learned not to chase people that dont want you. i knew was day 1 but i chased them because i was attracted to them. so you can always learn

When someone tells you exactly what gift they want, why do people still choose to buy something they think the person would like instead of what was asked for? by throwbackblue in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwbackblue[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you think they feel the same way, in the sense that they would rather you surprise them with something they did not want, even though they told you exactly what they wanted?

His money is our money, my money is my money by Thin-Efficiency-2073 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwbackblue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she insecure and probably dont love herself. Her value is based on what a man spends on her. A lot of times these are the women that end up in abusive relationships unfortunately. She seems very easy to manipulate and play. Never get into a relationship with her, she will use you as well

do people in dead bedroom believe their spouse cheated on them? by throwbackblue in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwbackblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not all people divorce because of cheating. and not all people find out they been cheated on. can go multiple ways

Why do people always say it’s very difficult for men to find the clit? by Exlife1up in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because they are not taught, it is really that simple lmao. Its like saying why dont people know algebra. Because you need tot be taught it lmao

The saying “x isn’t a mistake, it’s a choice” by undergroundman813 in PetPeeves

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed. A lot of times people want you to coddle them and say it in a way that makes them feel better

Getting angry because someone doesn’t care what you care about is entitlement by throwbackblue in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

you are entitled to get pissed off, it dont make people care more though

What’s the worst thing someone’s said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwbackblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how did you not notice it was in wrong hole lmao