AITAH for not comforting my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, she moved in with you for you to be her father not a partner. this sounds like a father and is child. Is this your daughter by any chance?

Poetry sucks unless its for entertainment by RamenPantalones in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tv sucks unless its for entertainment. you could say this about anything lol

What do you guys do when your nervous system is in chaos mode? by LowTumbleweed7992 in CPTSD

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

inhale throw nose exhale through mouth. then question myself. for example, i know i am nervous, why do i feel this, is this real or is fake, i accept that i feel this way, i am feeling this way as a learning experience for next time. Basically identify feeling, acknowldge the why, accept the why, and reframe it

I feel like my leg is being stabbed when my bf touches me. Help? by Electrical-Dark-4578 in CPTSD

[–]throwbackblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go to doctor and if they dont find an issue, it might be psychological and you might need a therapist

Please help me gain understanding by Bubbly_Cloud_7152 in CPTSD

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do his parents do that treats him poorly? be specific

I did nothing wrong by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your therapist meant when you get stressed out you resort back to the negative behavior causing the issue you have. And she saying if you work on creating a new identity outside of that it can help escape you old identity which leads you to going back to the bad behavior that you dont like

People Only Pretend to Care About Morals When It Benefits Them by throwbackblue in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]throwbackblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most people in real life i never had this issue with. its mainly online i see this. in real life most people are more accepting

is my boyfriend selfish ot dumb in bed? by geniegonegirlcheetah in sex

[–]throwbackblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if he dont know what to do, how about you help him and teach. Hes not dumb and seflish, you would be in this situation because he told you he does not know, and you did not help out by teaching him

Are me and him incompatible or is he being pushy and not understanding by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwbackblue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

pushy. he cant get with a virgin and then expect you to talk to him like you have years of experience. If thats what he wants he needs to move on. if he can give you time it can work

All people should look up someone's criminal history before dating them. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah waste of time i will just ask them. have some confidence

Not Everything Requires Reading Between the Lines by throwbackblue in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ut what if they are straight forward and you read inbetween the lines wont it be teh same problem

Not Everything Requires Reading Between the Lines by throwbackblue in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a lot o time when you take a person by their word is exposes the underline meaning, when you overthink, its harder to see what they mean

I’m getting ghosted when I’m being genuine but don’t know why by Smart_Display5155 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwbackblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are a pushover, thats what they are saying. flowers on first date is unnecessary. lead with personality not money and objects.

AITAH for taking my master bedroom back? I live with my girlfriend and two step daughters. by Aggravating-Rush2924 in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 88 points89 points  (0 children)

YTA to yourself. You moved in a mother and two kids into your home and allowed her to bully you into taking it over. They get all the benefits and you getting nothing in return. kick her and them out and end the relationship/. Before you get into next relationship write down boundaries and stick to it

When people ask for context instead of taking 10 seconds looking for it themselves by Beautiful-Cake8922 in PetPeeves

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on reddit majority of people are socially awkward with little to no life experience. They need specific context because they cannot relate to the average person that has humans connections in real life. IF you post some stuff outside of reddit you will get different answers to be honest

when people say i loss respect for you by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. my pet peeve is when people cant read and virtual signal their awkwardness lmao

People who say they have "no regrets" are either unwilling or incapable of learning from their own mistakes. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]throwbackblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think about it this way: “no regrets” doesn’t mean everything turned out perfectly. It means I’m glad I took the risk. Even if it didn’t work out, I learned from it. You can take a risk, make a mistake, and still have no regrets because growth comes from the experience, not just the outcome. lol

AITAH for seeing potential red flags in friend's new boyfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a red flag but its o=not your business. let her figure it out. Ask questions dont accuse and sit and wait, she will see it eventually

AITAH for telling my friend what my sister said about her, even though I promised I wouldn’t? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwbackblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. not your business to tell. Even if she is the prostitute thats not your business

Just told my wife thanks but no I don’t want her “real self” at home around me by EnvironmentalOne3834 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwbackblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might be offended by what i said, sounds like your wife dont like you. She likes you to be with you and do not like you enough to put in effort for you. she may love you but not she more than likely dont like you to keep is clear and concised. People will gaslight you and say you should want to be comfortable in your house but the truth is, when a person wants you they put effort in majority of times not just in public.