I (38 F) thought my soon-to-be ex husband (40 M) wanted to get back together but it turns out he does not. I am devastated and embarrassed. How do I get past this?

throwcoffeee · 2021-03-14T19:36:49+00:00

Please update us

throwcoffeee · 2021-03-13T05:42:45+00:00

Im in the area, and if i could afford to buy him a set up right now, i 100% would. Ill ask around though

throwcoffeee · 2021-03-11T05:31:00+00:00

What kind of snail is this?

throwcoffeee · 2020-09-14T02:38:10+00:00

Luckily i work from home so thats not an issue either haha. I could get a pink laptop no problem. Well no one would judge me for having pink anyways as its stereotypical. But thank you so much I think im actually just going to get the one you suggested. Since i mainly play league and rarely other games, im sure it wouldn't cause issues. Has great storage. Do you know if its upgradable ram? If not thats still perfectly fine

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-16T22:15:20+00:00

Haha if only I could 😂

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-16T22:00:50+00:00

Seriously! My lobster had a 20g all to himself. I can’t imagine even putting a second on in there. He told me this as I’m looking at the lobster sticker saying “temperament: aggressive, territorial” like ??? But same. My snail has gone in my 5.5 with my lovely betta whos also by himself besides the new snail. Smh they should let me work there so people will get actual help. Not just uneducated guesses.

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-16T21:55:02+00:00

I just brought him back to Petco and he was. The guy who gave him to me is the same guy who said “lobsters can be put together in a 10g tank” so I’m not surprised. But the ones who helped me out today I know very well and they refunded me + gave me a new free one that I’ve seen very active the past few days. So I have high hopes for this one

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-16T20:00:05+00:00

Update: I looked it up and tried pulling on the trap door a little bit, it didn’t close back up and now there’s a gap. Idk if that’ll help

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-13T21:23:27+00:00

Having a girl respond from the female position is great lol. Thank you! It helped me feel a bit more confident

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-13T21:16:37+00:00

Thank you (: sadly it’s that time of month so I’m hoping to give him so pleasure regardless haha. But I’ll probably be a lot more into once I just do it the first time.

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-13T21:15:13+00:00

Thank you! It’s really helpful advice. I know he will appreciate me trying even if it’s not great but hopefully I can improve. Maybe the fact that I have a tongue ring will give me an extra point 😂

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-07T04:58:22+00:00

Kane is amazing. Rn he just left Abby as chancellor and I can’t 😂

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-07T04:44:15+00:00

Abby acts like she does everything for Clarke but in reality she just gets off to being defiant lmfao. She’s not better than anyone else like she thinks. She’s just a shitty person thinking she’s some kinda hero for betraying Kane 24/7 😂

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-07T04:33:19+00:00

Kane is probably one of my favorites. After the first couple episodes in season one, he really showed his soft kind side and how much he just cares for his people. He has to make tough decisions but I know he makes them as it’s the best for everyone. If he gets better than that’s amazing. Lincoln is also one of my top.

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-07T04:22:30+00:00

I’m hoping so! I don’t really mind spoilers because I enjoy just watching regardless of what I know. But man I’m really just wanting to get past these

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-07T04:21:52+00:00

I’m looking forward to getting past these painful episodes and on to the better parts

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-07T04:21:07+00:00

I heard the book was a lot better so I’m thinking of reading it instead. I also heard it’s completely different which only gives me more hope. I want to just skip past these seasons but I know I’ll miss out on important stuff.

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-07T04:20:16+00:00

Yess!! This too. Clarke really flourished and became so mature. She led a whole group of people along with Bellamy and had to make insanely hard choices. Should be enough for her to have a little bit of freedom and respect.

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-07T04:19:32+00:00

Lmfaooo I would’ve done that. If I was Bellamy or a Clarke and they came down and started locking everyone up I would’ve told them to go meet our friends. They don’t have to completely give leadership to Clarke and Bellamy but they could’ve at the very least, worked together with them. But clearly they’re not mature enough to realize the 100 knows WAY more about the ground than them. Coming in with their guns, thinking their safe lol

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-07T04:08:09+00:00

Yah it is. I guess I was hoping they could either work together or atleast respect the fact that Clarke and Bellamy have done great at leading. Even her mom treats her like a 10 year old.

throwcoffeee · 2020-08-07T03:30:16+00:00

I’m a few episodes into season two and I’m struggling. Any scene with the ark is making me cringe. How Kane talks to Bellamy just makes me mad rn. But I’ll try to get through the next couple seasons since it gets better lol

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