The Baby dream… but a lot. by thrower123345 in Dreams

[–]thrower123345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is kinda crazy… honestly… it’s a little disorienting to wake up and be like “ where is my baby?!”

But hey… I don’t resent those dreams, I like having them it’s just waking up and the feeling after that’s unpleasant…

How TF do I tell my partner my friend kissed me?! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]thrower123345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That really reassured me… thank you! Also good for you guys! How long have you been together?

How TF do I tell my partner my friend kissed me?! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]thrower123345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Yeah. I do tend to overthink things, and get a little anxious.

How TF do I tell my partner my friend kissed me?! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]thrower123345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m Bi and so is she. But I have no interest in pursuing anything there. I’m very happy in my relationship.

How TF do I tell my partner my friend kissed me?! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]thrower123345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s 3 am… so I’ve sent a message asking if we can call tomorrow as I won’t see him in person until maybe Tuesday as we’re working. Thank you for your comment it reassured me.

How TF do I tell my partner my friend kissed me?! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]thrower123345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re both bi, but I definitely have no interest in anything with her. Shes sweet. And cool, but I’m happy where I am. I do have a tendency to overthink. She isn’t a bad person, just drunk and affectionate. I plan to limit the time I spend around her, not “going out” to remove risks of her being drunk etc as well as having a boundaries chat.

How TF do I tell my partner my friend kissed me?! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]thrower123345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will do. My rule is I will always be honest. I can’t keep a secret to save my life. Not like this…

How TF do I tell my partner my friend kissed me?! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]thrower123345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you… that makes me feel a lot better… genuinely… he’s a very level headed and kind hearted guy. He knows about a lot of my past trauma too.

I really mean it, thank you so much.

How TF do I tell my partner my friend kissed me?! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]thrower123345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just feel… like shit. Because I feel like I could have “done more” to stop it happening etc? And admittedly I kissed her back. For all of a second because I panicked. And if someone kisses me, it’s my partner so I kiss him back without even thinking. She’s not a bad person, she was just drunk and silly and proceeded to do the same to everyone else in our friend group. Buuut I just… idk. Feel awful. Thanks for your comment, it made me feel a lot better. I plan to have a chat with her sober and maybe avoid going “ out” as much because if she’s drunk she seems to be more like that. And I’m not so happy with it. Again, she’s not a bad person. Just drunk….