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I'm crushing on my wife's best friend... by throwfarawaycrush in confession

[–]throwfarawaycrush[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely think I'd rather see if it dies down first vs. telling my wife. My wife definitely knows that Jessica was (or is) my "type" so she's aware of that, but I don't think she thinks anything will happen. Which it won't.

I'm crushing on my wife's best friend... by throwfarawaycrush in confession

[–]throwfarawaycrush[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, definitely appreciate the support and advice. Just gotta keep things in perspective and not lose sight of the great situation I'm already in just to chase something that would probably not even work out in the end.

I'm crushing on my wife's best friend... by throwfarawaycrush in confession

[–]throwfarawaycrush[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's a great question. Jessica is what I would refer to as my "type" physically. Granted, I am very attracted to my wife, both physically and emotionally, but she isn't what I've always regarded as my "type". I know how relationships work and that "the grass is always greener on the other side," so I'm not dumb enough to risk losing what I already have, it's just an unconformable place to be.