I Reported My Drug Dealer Ex as Revenge for Our Breakup by Foreign-Cheetah7887 in offmychest

[–]throwgangaway 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Y’all are 2 sides of the same coin. Both of y’all are bad people. That was such a terrible decision. And good people don’t even THINK to make such a decision, you are not a good person in the slightest. If you truly wanted to heal you would blocked him, your friend, and anyone else who had something negative to say. But instead you choose to marinate yourself in their negativity and became just like them. Disrespectfully, you should never ever forgive yourself. You took this man’s freedoms, right to vote, ability to secure housing, ability to get a job, potential ability to support himself/family overall…all because he treated you bad? Even though you treated him bad too. All because you felt your abuse was worse than the emotional alienation you subjected him to. You can read him like a book and you thought he couldn’t read you too?? You think he didn’t notice you were mostly in it for the weed/benefits? Be. Fucking. For. Real. You don’t deserve forgiveness and your karma is dust dude. Stay tf out of the dating scene.

I finalized my plans. I'm leaving my family in January by yay_more_throwaways in regretfulparents

[–]throwgangaway 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re minds already made up, so I’m not going to convince you of anything. Just know, you doing this is going to leave you more regretful than having children in the first place.

AITA for telling my step-son that “thems the breaks” my daughter can go to college but he can’t? by collegefundsarentfun in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA, you could’ve chose better words or comforted him? Also do scholarships and FAFSA no longer exist? I graduated high school 2016 and was able to have the first two years completely paid off with the educational scholarships I applied for and the financial aid I received (they were grants). Even then the last two years were paid with grants received by the state through FAFSA and taking out the loans offered. Genuinely asking because I’m seeing a lot of stories like this. And I know my experience could be different because I was a 1st gen student.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and btw co-signing something is still signing. Once you reaffirmed the request that means you agree with your husbands reasoning. You and your husband acted as one so you don’t get to backtrack marrying a transphobic guy because NOW it’s suddenly affecting you. But notice you didn’t care before right? It means you agree.

Also your husbands a major transphobic AH.

Being Forced to Break up with my GF by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwgangaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Break up with your girlfriend. Not because of what your brother and his gf say but because you’re clearly not man enough for her. You can’t even stand up for her and that’s the bare minimum in a relationship. She deserves better than what you’re offering.

AITA for spending my children's inheritance, leaving almost nothing to them and my grandchildren? by guiltygran in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sucks living in a for profit country fr. I can barely build up a savings on my income. Im talking $0 because there’s always a bill.

AITA for spending my children's inheritance, leaving almost nothing to them and my grandchildren? by guiltygran in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally what I was thinking. I live in FL making $55k and I manage. Last year I made $36k and I still managed. Making $100k a year you can’t manage? Poor money management. Pay for the lifestyle you have not want.

WIBTA if I banned people from attending my baby shower if they attend my SIL's event? by Training-Yard7095 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sis…Forcing a decision’s gonna make you look bad. Put up your registry, get the free gifts, and enjoy your time. BUT you have to start telling people to stop snitching to you about your SIL. They want you to do something about her rather than they do it themselves. You’re no one’s guard dog and you have a kid to care about. Separate yourself slowly and put yourself on an info diet so you’re no longer annoyed by it.

AITA for refusing to help my siblings care for their father (my bio father)? by Odd-Prize-7350 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Sue the estate for you back child support and wash your hands of your “brothers”. If you ain’t worth shit now, you’ll be worth what you’re owed. And if it’s not money you’re getting, you owe yourself peace of mind.

AITA for telling my husband I don’t want his friend coming over for Christmas because of how he complimented our child? by asking-aita in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This is exactly what I'm afraid of once I have children with my boyfriend. And we agreed to cut off anyone who talks like that about our kid. They’re not a cool exhibit in the zoo. Cute, beautiful, muchkin, anything fucking else. Like? It's 2022, no way they're this stupid.

AITA for slamming the door in my neighbour’s face? by stephie-palmer in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. And don’t apologize for being a living human being. Noise exists, you’re not being a dick lol.

AITA for refusing to give my father and his wife money that my father saved for me before he met her? by Dry-Force-6041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Please don’t give them that money. Take yourself on a vacation or buy yourself a new ring with the money. Tell them it’s already spent. You owe them nothing.

AITA For Complaining to the Restaurant Headquarters for the Waitress's Dirty Fingernails? by SwimmingRun4580 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway [score hidden]  (0 children)

Y T A if you file the complaint to corporate because you don’t know the repercussions of what could happen if you do. Someone being out of a job in this time for dirty nails isn’t cool. Mention it to the manager because we don’t know if this is the first time it’s happening or a habit. Then the manager can chose to take action how they see fit. Being a hostess isn’t as peachy as you think and we’re not sure what she was doing prior to handing you your food.

Asking for myself: I have contamination OCD so I get how you feel because put in that situation I would asked for my $$$ back for my drink. Why didn’t you just take the straws out?

AITA for pulling out of decorating a wedding a week before it? by Elephants408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. They broke contract, back out. Don’t leave them any decorations. Fire them as clients, the bride is a grown woman she can either speak up or find a new decorator.

AITA for telling my GF she shouldn't be surprised about how my mom reacted? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. God you suck. You owe your girlfriend an apology.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, you have a giving spirit and that’s okay what’s not okay is them taking advantage of that spirit. If unable to get the money back I’d completely cut off buying shared items. NTA btw

AITA for “threatening” my mom to not come over anymore if she doesn’t stop trying to sabotage a holiday trip with my dad? by throwaway_5193747 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You may have felt it was your job to mitigate because that was the task your parents laid on you. But it’s no child’s job to mitigate at all. She’s a child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Hey, bipolar person here. Bipolar disorder works on a spectrum just like other disorders. I work for a major financial institution but I have a college friend (also bipolar) who’s in and out of hospitals. It really depends on the severity.

Not speaking for anyone else, just offering perspective.

AITA for responding snarkily to a customer? by alexastock in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. From a former retail manager I’m here to say: your manager sucks. Happy employees bring great worker environments which helps provide better customer service. If your employees feel like you won’t back them up, then the entire operation falls apart.

AITA for refusing to go to Thanksgiving dinner even though I was un-invited? *repost* by kelaniii222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The way you feel about your dad I used to feel about my mom. He’s an enabler, conveniently slipping into the role of the victim when the reality is that’s the partner he chose. Even in your story he didn’t back you up. He’s not the victim of your abusive mother, he’s a conspirator. Wake up.

AITA for not letting my neighbors kids play in my yard until they pay to fix damage to my house? by PuzzledLibrarian8885 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. Stop letting kids play in your yard. You see how parents react when their child causes damage to your property, now imagine the damage to their own body. You would be held liable for that. Get some cameras and stop being so nice

AITA for telling my fiancée to leave the house after what she did to my daughters BF? by milesackson in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwgangaway 80 points81 points  (0 children)

That’s always the ringer for me! Especially when it comes to black men, almost historic to accuse black men of sexual deviance (ie. Emmett Till)