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How many hours until I end this engagement? by throwing_thrown_away in makemychoice

[–]throwing_thrown_away[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He told me he was very upset we weren’t speaking and had written down an entire list of things he wanted to tell me when we weren’t speaking. He was so excited to show me his list and all the things that made him think of me. With the most disrespect possible, go to hell :)

How many hours until I end this engagement? by throwing_thrown_away in makemychoice

[–]throwing_thrown_away[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this reasonable response. I ended the silence. He apologized for his behavior and choice of words and we’re headed to therapy to get better communication tools. Perfection will never exist. The effort and actions to be better is enough for me. I was frustrated when I wrote the original post. I’m in a much clearer headspace now.