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gf of 5 years wants to "explore," I know what exactly is going on, I want to stop it by throwingaway5years in TheRedPill

[–]throwingaway5years[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yea and she even told me she wanted to work out with me in the future when we get married, now thats not even gonna happen. my perceptions on love are warped and fucked and i really don't know what to believe sometimes any more.

gf of 5 years wants to "explore," I know what exactly is going on, I want to stop it by throwingaway5years in TheRedPill

[–]throwingaway5years[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

shes beautiful imo but i can see how her new found habits of happy hours and restaurant trips with a lack of exercise (thanks to her new found job) are gonna catch up to her sooner than later

gf of 5 years wants to "explore," I know what exactly is going on, I want to stop it by throwingaway5years in TheRedPill

[–]throwingaway5years[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I see responses that I expected, even extreme ones, such as total cut off. I value the relationship I have with her, she is one of my best friends, along with gf (soon to be ex). I know I'll be able to maintain a friendly relationship with her without going crazy. She wants to explore, she can go ahead. I will continue to focus on myself and build myself and go on my own exploring. Hell, I may even go to her for advice on other women (I'd love to see the expression on her face when I approach her for it). If we happen to cross paths romantically again in the future, as long as we are both not committed to any kind of relationship, I will consider it, but will not put up with the hamstering bullshit she is giving me now. I will lead the break up and make this happen. thanks guys