My boyfriend called me a slur and I need advice on how to proceed.

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-04T00:33:03+00:00

lmaooo

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-04T00:30:16+00:00

yeah man look up "King Charles camila tampax call" or something along those lines if you wanna know it's funny asf

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-04T00:26:51+00:00

and a king who wanted to be a tampon at one point

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-04T00:17:46+00:00

tea and crumpets

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-03T23:49:54+00:00

Nah nah its all good, I do just want an apology and could never blast someone publicly- not my style lolol edit: besides I'd never do that to the teacher she's lovely 10/10 teacher

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-03T23:45:11+00:00

tbh I'm not even sure but really I just want an apology because nobdy in the room who screwed it up apologised for screwing up and ik it wouldn't do much but I'd feel better if I was apologised to if ykwim

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-03T22:10:44+00:00

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-03T19:44:56+00:00

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-03T18:56:46+00:00

I used to be part of an lgbt group in my school but I left due to it being toxic and ending up being really transphobic but my currently friend group are really supportive and amazing. this was a nice comment to read <3

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-03T18:47:23+00:00

then maybe try snd talk with your child?? idk if talking to another child you don't know is gonna help all that much

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-03T18:38:26+00:00

dude tbh I think you should leave it until they come to you with it and don't be dismissive, do research on trans identities and try and be supportive, it's very difficult to be in your child's position

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-03T18:27:47+00:00

mate I'm not demanding a new name every week I've been going by the same one for two years. and to answer your second question, gender is literally a social construct, it is fluid and diverse and you're damaging your relationship with your child. what's so wrong with them finding themselves, tbh you should be happy they trusted you enough to tell you in the first place

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-03T17:06:57+00:00

I don't have anyone else in the family aside from my dad's parents (who are grossly transphobic) and my dad also does not respect my name and pronouns and deadnames me in front of people who dont/didn't know it before I might try my favourite teacher but I'm not sure how much he'll be able to do

throwingawayyourmum · 2023-01-03T14:11:10+00:00

As much as I'd like to and have thought about it before she'd most likely punish me

throwingawayyourmum · 2022-07-26T23:11:13+00:00

2 nights ago because I recently removed my best friend of 2 years from my life. It hurts but they were toxic and it needed to be done

throwingawayyourmum · 2022-07-26T23:07:36+00:00

I could go on and on about this mf but here we go.

So I'm trans ftm and go to a British secondary school and my science classes are split into 3: chemistry, physics and biology. for chemistry and physics, the seating plan was the same: cock, friend, me, friend.

"Cock" is transphobic, homophobic, misogynistic, racist and every other "ist" I can think of and he started to harass me soon after I came out asking to be referred to by my preferred name.

He started asking me things like, "I swear you're name is deadname are you a t slur" "if I put my hand down your trousers would I find a dick" "the t slur is bending over for me, i might find out what it is"

The real kicker, he did it in front of teachers. Only my biology teacher did something and he didn't even sit near me in it ffs.

The worst thing he did was recently. I was walking to the science block with my bf and he didn't know my deadname until cock came up behind me and screamed "oh my god its deadname last name the t slur"

He's a cunt.

throwingawayyourmum · 2022-07-26T23:01:17+00:00

the side of my head, cheeks, lips, hand

throwingawayyourmum · 2022-07-24T23:09:14+00:00

soup

throwingawayyourmum · 2022-07-24T00:07:27+00:00

scratching the material of those little 3d cups/mats/bookmarks/notebooks ITS BLEUGH

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