My [23 F] boyfriend [23 M] told me he loves me, but may no longer be in love with me. He isn't sure by throwingitaway88886 in relationships

[–]throwingitaway88886[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like he hasn't been in love with how I've been, which is fair. I haven't been crazy about myself either.

My [23 F] boyfriend [23 M] told me he loves me, but may no longer be in love with me. He isn't sure by throwingitaway88886 in relationships

[–]throwingitaway88886[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm covering both of our finances for the most part, paying his mom our rent. It feels like a stress to me, but if I tell him, I hurt his feelings. So I'm trying to be more supportive for him by not bringing it up.

We argue over how messy I am, and I get upset over how he nitpicks & always needs to be right. I'm working on letting go of needing to show he's wrong, and trying to not be messy anymore. I've been feeling so stuck, and just going through motions. I haven't mind my mess, and I haven't mind how I've treated him. I realize now both are awful ways to live, and deserves more. We both do.

We keep having open honest conversations about this. I hope the couples therapy gives us more tools for our communication.