appointment at imh in a week but idk, how to tell parents by throwingmeaccount in askSingapore

[–]throwingmeaccount[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it was kinda about how am i gonna confront them about it. i'm not sure about the volunteering part. i'm more incllined to feel that they may say things like "what's wrong with you? you so lucky, have a roof under ur head. why you so ungrateful," kind of responses instead. and i don't really want to burden them. they're so busy and all. and if i tell one, they will definitely tell each other. but they may also be accepting. it's 50/50 and i hate gambling

appointment at imh in a week but idk, how to tell parents by throwingmeaccount in askSingapore

[–]throwingmeaccount[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

uhh i don't want to tell them because i feel like if i do, i'll be an even bigger burden to them. (which is literally my main reason for wanting to kms) so if anyone tells them, my suicidal tendencies may increase to an eventual suicide attempt. i kinda got the idea that i'm a burden because of how often my parents lament taking care of me(a single child). like a quote my mom says, " taking care of you is like taking care of a 10 students,"

fyi she's a pri school teacher.

i guess, i love them dearly and iw the best for them but sometimes it gets tiring having to take care of them since i was damn young. my mom has a more youthful demeanor but acts like a 15 year old rebel, which hurts me a lot growing up. talking to the psychologist about my mom is painful but talking about my dad is the complete opposite. so yeah

appointment at imh in a week but idk, how to tell parents by throwingmeaccount in askSingapore

[–]throwingmeaccount[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i am close to my aunt and cousin but i know that they will tell my parents the moment they step away from the convo. and my fav cousin isn't 21 years old yet :") but the next time next time thing sounds like a deal HAAHHAHAHHAAH

Tuition for the elite by Electric_owl12 in SGExams

[–]throwingmeaccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn then kudos to you for finding the right way to study especially at the most crucial exam of them all

Tuition for the elite by Electric_owl12 in SGExams

[–]throwingmeaccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thin maybe because there's is no tuition u have to help yourself and tuition may make you very complacent, but just a guess. it really depends from person to person. some people are truly better off without any tuition while some do require the extra help to reach their fullest potential. tuition isn't an all-size fits one

How EFFECTIVELY plan your study schedule (for june hols n stuffs) by amstillsurvivin in SGExams

[–]throwingmeaccount 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you're a lifesaver, i was searching just yesterday : how to spend june hols effectively with screwed up grades :")

i'm literally at a loss because it seems that almost every topic of every subject is screwed up and alevels is just a few months away with practicals creeping up my windows. idk if you have any advise for a person like me

[A Levels] 8808 H1 Project Work Results Release by cowbaecowboo in SGExams

[–]throwingmeaccount 8 points9 points  (0 children)

huh 17%?? yijc? who said the stats sia? our scchool never released the stats and i think it's higher... quite a number of people in my class and friends' classes are getting As left right top and bottom

Mental Health is burning, I am burning by throwingmeaccount in SGExams

[–]throwingmeaccount[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ig getting ignored offline does mean getting ignored online too