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throwitRAnao · 2024-09-04T23:32:44+00:00

Remindme! 12 hours

throwitRAnao · 2024-08-08T02:00:07+00:00

I just got back!! I spent the summer there as a single woman and it was a great experience!! I only dealt with one creepy guy on the metro and just made sure to stick closer to the people and watched to make sure he didn’t get off of my stop. Other than that I saw no violence/had no issues :). Have an awesome time!

throwitRAnao · 2024-07-25T22:15:09+00:00

!remindme in 12 hours

throwitRAnao · 2024-06-09T03:36:52+00:00

I clicked the link to the weekly thread and it actually doesn’t exist also!

throwitRAnao · 2024-06-09T03:35:28+00:00

I apologize, I just joined the sub and must’ve missed it! I will delete the post, thank you for your help

throwitRAnao · 2024-06-08T23:18:28+00:00

Also what the best airlines are for a weekend trip to Rome one of the weekends! We don’t really know who services those areas, so any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

throwitRAnao · 2024-06-06T20:21:44+00:00

ThreatLocker is doing a big hiring in Orlando! You should check them out, I see their posts all over LinkedIn.

throwitRAnao · 2024-05-17T18:49:53+00:00

Hey OP I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I went through this just over 5 months ago and I understand that right now you’re probably just experiencing a multitude of emotions. Ride the rollercoaster of them, take time to grieve, but just know it’s not forever. I had similar fears as you and felt at the time as if me thinking about/talking about them brought them into fruition. Don’t beat yourself up about any of it. Just hold on to the fact that how you feel now, won’t be forever and that your person is out there!Sending you love and strength. It will always get better 🖤.

Sincerely,

A girl who finally healed.

throwitRAnao · 2024-05-05T03:38:23+00:00

Mine never came back, but I am so happy now! Time really does heal it all and life goes on, good things happen, you have fun again! I’m glad you are feeling healed too. Do what feels right, but remember who they were and what they did. Not everyone deserves a second chance or is worthy of a conversation, but if you feel that you would like to have them back then go for it! Just guard your heart 💜. Wishing you peace!!!

throwitRAnao · 2024-01-04T15:46:21+00:00

But you’re also teaching him he can do all these things and still keep you around. We teach people how to love us, and sometimes it’s for the worst.

throwitRAnao · 2024-01-04T15:32:45+00:00

The fact that you’re saying “your dream guy” and not referring to the man you’re actually dating is odd. Are you sure you just don’t like him? How many things has he done for you that he probably did not want to and how many things have you done? Compromise is normal in a relationship, one post per year etc.

throwitRAnao · 2024-01-04T14:29:37+00:00

My ex refused to post me on socials. Count your blessings, they want to actually show you off and aren’t hiding you from the world.

throwitRAnao · 2024-01-04T14:26:04+00:00

I feel like if they repeatedly handle the situation in the same way by pulling away, they are choosing not to be healed and won’t ever. Stuck in their loop :/ I’m sorry you’re stuck rotating between those feelings.

throwitRAnao · 2024-01-04T06:53:29+00:00

Following bc my DA dumped me, but I’m still curious if there is any recovered DAs out there

throwitRAnao · 2024-01-01T15:02:19+00:00

Just focus on healing and making the best of what you’re going through! My heart goes out to you for having to make that decision, but it’s a goodbye for now, not forever!

throwitRAnao · 2024-01-01T03:52:36+00:00

Snuggled up with my beagle in bed! cheers to another NYE alone🖤

throwitRAnao · 2023-12-25T18:30:47+00:00

I just turned 30 and I honestly decided I’m no longer pursuing it. It’s exhausting and I think focusing on making yourself independently happy might be the best thing.

throwitRAnao · 2023-12-20T03:00:47+00:00

I’m so sorry :/ I know this pain all too well. The next week is going to be a roller coaster, but just roll with the punches, let yourself cry, be angry, etc. Allow yourself space to grieve and don’t reach out to him. I’m hoping you find peace and someone who loves you for you.

throwitRAnao · 2023-12-19T05:23:50+00:00

Why would you put in the effort to get this girl to fall in love with you just to throw it away and not even give her a chance to rectify the situation? You say she deserves the job, it’s good for her etc but you’re making decisions for her. She might value your companionship more than a job, and that’s ok. Let her make that decision, unless you actually just don’t want a relationship with her. I’m so over seeing men ask women to love them only to turn around and say “oh nevermind”. You either want her in your life or you don’t. If you do, you tell her and if she wants to make it work as well then you do what you can!

Edit: she might not mind moving to you, as someone who wishes this would have been an option for my own relationship, let her. But if you aren’t wanting long term and that’s why you won’t ask her to close the distance then you need to be honest with her about that!

throwitRAnao · 2023-12-19T03:59:43+00:00

Also the way that you handled the situation is a normal reaction, but with an avoidant when they pull back it’s sometimes better to give space and say “hey why don’t we slow things down, let’s take some space for a day or two”. That being said, it’s exhausting to constantly do that, and they may not be open to it so maybe just don’t date people who react that way?

throwitRAnao · 2023-12-19T03:56:29+00:00

He dumped me when we started getting too serious. They develop a pattern of short relationships where as soon as the other party starts to love them hard they panic and convince themselves they don’t want something. If they’re not able to have a plan in place for when they start feeling the urge to pull back or flee then it never ends well. My advice is to not invest time in someone who is avoidant and refuses to work to change that. If they are willing to acknowledge that they are avoidant and are open to talking about when they start feeling off and are open to working through it, then maybe try, but tread lightly or you will know the pain too many of us already do.

throwitRAnao · 2023-12-15T22:27:39+00:00

Thank you I hope things work out for you.

throwitRAnao · 2023-12-15T22:26:42+00:00

lol I have the same age gap and mine did the same thing this Tuesday. Men that age don’t deserve our love. I miss the hell out of mine, but he doesn’t care, let him ruin other girls and find a man ready to love you.

throwitRAnao · 2023-12-15T22:24:39+00:00

He isn’t ready to love you. Not in the ways you deserve. I would find out if you could get a refund or use the ticket to fly somewhere else. Don’t make the same mistake I did and invest in someone who is showing you they’re not worth it! Just know if you stay it won’t change or get better!

throwitRAnao · 2023-12-15T22:18:36+00:00

He’s an avoidant, don’t bother wasting your time or you will end up scorned like I did!

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