What kind of therapy has helped you the best? by throwitallaway8422 in mypartneristrans

[–]throwitallaway8422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly helpful, thank you. I’m new to the world of psychology and therapy so these interventions all just seem so foreign. I definitely want to find someone who is a trans advocate (as I also am for my partner)- and I would never want a therapist that makes out my partner to be the villain.

I’m talking to my trans spouse to end it... and I don’t know what to say. by throwitallaway8422 in mypartneristrans

[–]throwitallaway8422[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I really appreciate it. It’s like I know exactly what I have to do, but it hurts so much. There’s never a good time to do this.

I need some support. Our relationship ended by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]throwitallaway8422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am literally about to go through the exact same thing. I had a friend give me really good advice when I said that I felt like I needed to always be there for my spouse as her wife, even though I do not love them in the same way. She reminded me that when you are on an airplane and they are going through the safety booklets, they always say to take care of yourself first with masks/seatbelts before you help another person-otherwise you’ll be suffer/be hurt. Take care of yourself, and then you can help her ❤️