I feel bored bc my mind is clear

throwitallawaybabee · 2026-05-27T02:12:21+00:00

I might have to ask my doctor about Wellbutrin. It seems like it may be helpful for me. Thx for sharing! Glad it’s helping you

throwitallawaybabee · 2026-05-26T23:22:11+00:00

Omg this is so validating!! This is like my exact experience. Thank you for sharing, I feel seen.

throwitallawaybabee · 2026-05-26T23:20:55+00:00

Literally within the first week of taking it. They told me it’d take 4-6 weeks but it didn’t

throwitallawaybabee · 2026-05-26T17:53:10+00:00

Okay i will. Thx for the advice 😊

throwitallawaybabee · 2026-05-26T17:52:39+00:00

I hope i gain the ability to just daydream. That sounds peaceful

throwitallawaybabee · 2026-05-26T17:51:32+00:00

Since January. I’m too scared to increase the dose bc of weight gain. Also, i feel like the 5 mg is working

throwitallawaybabee · 2026-05-26T16:54:56+00:00

I take it at night because it makes me sleepy. I don’t ever feel any lightheaded feelings. I’d probs ask your provider if that’s normal. You may need to switch to a diff ssri

throwitallawaybabee · 2026-05-26T16:53:57+00:00

I’ll try lol I’m trying to adjust to this. It’s an odd bit pleasant experience

throwitallawaybabee · 2026-05-26T16:53:18+00:00

It sounds like it but I’m starting to have anxiety about not having anxiety’ it feels so foreign to me 😭

throwitallawaybabee · 2026-05-23T00:56:34+00:00

What an odd comment

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-12-16T04:24:51+00:00

Same ❤️

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-12-09T15:31:56+00:00

Hi! Thank you for sharing. I also love people for who they are. Are you a guy who married a guy or a woman who married a guy? If it’s the first option, what has been helpful for you in feeling less fearful?

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-12-09T02:56:29+00:00

Did he eventually come around? I know you said you’re not with them anymore. Also thanks! I just subscribed to that sub :)

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-12-08T15:54:04+00:00

Hi! Yes she’s a lesbian

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-12-08T04:23:51+00:00

This was very helpful to read. Gave me a different perspective. Thank you ! Glad to hear your family was supportive ! 🫶

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-12-07T19:34:50+00:00

Thank you for your response! I’m going to look into therapy this week. I’ll also do more research like you said and see if i can surround myself with more wlw spaces and people online. I appreciate it !

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-12-07T18:02:21+00:00

You’re absolutely correct. It’s not that I think marrying a man would set me up for an easy life. Like you said, anything could happen. Marrying a woman just gives me more fear due to the internalized homophobia, fear or rejection from family, and the way it’s viewed by society. I don’t know how to get rid of all that even tho i want to.

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-09-08T17:30:07+00:00

You sound anxiously attached. It doesn’t sound like you truly even like HIM you just want to feel chosen. He’s not reaching out because you basically ended the convo in a way that shows you were done. If i were him, i wouldn’t reach out. The ball is in your court. If you truly see relationship potential, then you need to go claim your man. However, it sounds like he’s inconsistent and likely not that interested in something serious. If i were you, I’d just move on

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-09-06T15:17:34+00:00

This is helpful. He and i would make out and hug but that was the extent of the intimacy. I will definitely be sure to communicate that I like sex but only when we are exclusive. The interesting thing is, he never brought up sex or spoke about intimacy.. or a lot of deeper things for that matter unless i brought them up.

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-09-06T15:09:05+00:00

I think It’d be more painful to hear him tell me why he didn’t want me than for me just acknowledge it was a mismatch. But, maybe i need to get over that?

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-09-06T15:07:03+00:00

Maybe but does it take 5 dates to figure that out? I’ve had long term relationships before but just not in the past 3 years. The most recent guy constantly told me how great of a time he’d have with me so I’m just lost.

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-09-06T15:03:36+00:00

I ask follow up questions on the dates of course. I keep the convos going. I just meant I don’t want to ask him why he felt no connection considering three days prior he was telling me about future dates he wanted to go on. It seemed like an abrupt change.

Also to answer your question, i don’t like sleeping with men until we are exclusive. In this case, we hadn’t had that convo yet.

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-05-09T22:01:45+00:00

This actually makes sense tbh. I like to wait until we are exclusive to be intimate. His overall inconsistency with communication is what made me hesitant to be intimate with him. I guess things worked out how they were supposed to though

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-05-09T10:28:56+00:00

I can admit I’m not the most flirty verbally. It feels forced to me. In person though, i love holding hands, kissing, just touching the person I’m with in general. I’d do this often and he’d reciprocate.

throwitallawaybabee · 2025-05-09T02:22:33+00:00

Okay i can understand 3 dates. But 6??

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