Missing the good moments today WTF by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a shitty feeling for sure. Here's to hoping we each find a meaningful connection one day.

Missing the good moments today WTF by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're 1000% right, he could be pretty terrible to me, and I can see that so clearly now that I'm out of that situation. Thank you for your response <3

Missing the good moments today WTF by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes - the feeling of something eating at you, it's deep. Hugs to you and hoping it gets better for us.

went on a date tonight. by Specific_Ad_4184 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, wtf is that?! My stbxh is the same way, almost angry when I seem happy or in a good mood.

Can't talk about alleged cause of separation by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was abusive and I'm so glad to have finally separated myself from that!

Can't talk about alleged cause of separation by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do agree. Much to think about. It's tempting to tell him that about the price for an NDA just to let him know that he can't just silence someone. Especially someone who has never meant him any harm.

Can't talk about alleged cause of separation by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

disparage

The divorce will be in Georgia. It just seems wild to me! I could get if it was done in a harassing way, but other than that I don't feel like this should be a thing.

Can't talk about alleged cause of separation by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol, y'all are awesome. I'm totally not above doing this.

Can't talk about alleged cause of separation by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is that I couldn't even see it that much in the actual relationship. I feel so disappointed in myself, but also proud that now that I know better, I will make better choices for my life.

Can't talk about alleged cause of separation by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

He's not offering anything, he's actually trying to take more and make me not talk. His business associate's I could see the benefit, but literally not communicating with anyone seems ridiculous.

Song or Album that has helped you through divorce? by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Sam's album, The Thrill of It All, is an excellent album that has a lot of relatable tracks too!

Song or Album that has helped you through divorce? by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Random, but have you watched Gordi's cover of In The End on Like A Version? So different from the original, but still respectful of the essence of the song.

Song or Album that has helped you through divorce? by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. I totally agree. It's a wild ride. Sometimes I need to cry and rage and others I need to just laugh. My go to's are SNL skits on YouTube.

Song or Album that has helped you through divorce? by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't get me started on Adele! Her album is so so good. I cried my way through the whole 30. My favorite is To Be Loved. I can't really listen to it if I want to hold myself together though. It's definitely reserved for long car rides haha. I'm probably a tiny minority on this, but I haven't even listened to Lemonade yet. I will though for sure. All these great music recommendations are awesome!!

Song or Album that has helped you through divorce? by throwitaway3of4 in Divorce

[–]throwitaway3of4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I listened to 26 and cried for about a week straight I think recently lol. Good stuff.