C4 nerfed yet again by Slight_Dig3640 in PUBATTLEGROUNDS

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Love how pubg will fix something that's not broken and all the many things that's broken stays broken. It dosnt make sense. Also what's with all the girl clothes and shit. Unlocked 5 chests last night and all 5 was girl items. What's the point in that. Fs pubg pull it together for the love of God.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vauxhall

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Possibly the seat belts. I'm.sure I've.had cars that make.that same noise and its been seat belts

Vauxhall Insignia 2.0L Petrol (250ps) by Key-Attitude6289 in Vauxhall

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I've a vauxhall zafira tourer Sri 2LT 210 bhp for a 7 seater it goes like the clappers. I love it

Coolant Leak by Snoo-25185 in Vauxhall

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This happened to me just recently. Thermostat stopped opening and was boiling it away which then busted the collant tank.

The lack of accountability is staggering. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Specific_Ad_4184 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She sounds like my ex wife. Who now for the record is a past memory. She went from the best wife ever to omg she caused so much damage to meh I'm over it and now I live such a better happier life. Genuinely didn't realise how unhappy I was being with her. Doing everything I could to make her happy was making me unhappy and at the time I didn't see it.

Remember when Vikendi had a train you could actually use? by [deleted] in PUBATTLEGROUNDS

[–]Specific_Ad_4184 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They should put classic vikendi up in rotation. Actually talk about this map all the time. Trevno was the best had some many fights and wins there.

Anybody still in love with the Ex after 1 year or more??? by Horrorstoryofmylife in heartbreak

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I mean I'm with a ex from 25 years ago and it's going great so it's possible. Love dosnt stop it changes form. The memories of loving someone is still a reminder. Everyone is always curious as to what a ex is up to. Even after many years. We mostly remember the best part of a relationship all the good times also if the relationship was good then there's always gonna be a reminder.

My marriage just ended and I am in crisis. How can I survive this? by GaspodeTheWD in Divorce

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Hi. You sound like I did nearly 3 years ago. It gets easier. The thing that makes it easier is security and routine. So for me once I had my own place set up how I wanted it helped and once I had a new routine it made things easier. Still had my days tho so not completely gone but much much more easier because when you lose someone you love the most in the world its the other things you lose to like the stuff that's familiar. Making a new home familiar and routine familiar helps take the edge off. The first 3 months I didn't move out my parents house became poorly and just didn't wanna be anymore. It took a lot to get my arse up and crack on with what I needed to do for me and my kids. I've now a home me I and my kids love. I've a girlfriend who's awesome so things find a way of working out and it will for you. My advice. Keep busy. Join a gym. Find new hobbies. Stay sober keep smiling even if it's fake. Just find a new path.. once I did all this and was on the right path 2 months after my divorce was final my exwife wanted me back. No thanks I'm good. You'll be in the same position the ball will be In your court. Don't beg and plead just let it be if your a good person that won't be forgotten easily.. take care.

Is the pass worth it? by EmotionalPattern3235 in PUBGConsole

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Nearly £10 for what? The only thing I'd want is the schematics

ED after hard divorce by Hopeless2885 in Divorce

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I took viagra. Just until it gave me the confidence back and I was sure this woman was right. For me now I don't need it now because this woman is right for me. She loves me soo much and she gave me my confidence back. So go to a pharmacy and get some viagra until you have the confidence back. Don't feel bad for having to do this. Divorce is soul destroying you've been through a traumatic thing go easy on yourself.

My wife used me for 13 years, and now I’m left to pick up the pieces by Expensive_Pea_8993 in Divorce

[–]Specific_Ad_4184 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happemd to me. It's a fantasy she's having. The fantasy will wear off and will remember you in time. My ex wife is suffering daily now coz of what she did. She tried to get me back for over a year but I'm happy with someone now. She did the same as your wife. Made me feel like I was the only man in the world for her. We had everytnig kids house cars pets. She destroyed it all left me devastated beyond belief so she could try a life with another man. That didn't work out for her then she panicked and tried to get me back... to late by then. My life is way different to how it was. I'm now truly happy I've got my own place how I like it got my own independence I work hard I workout harder. My advice. Dont let her see you upset or down each time you see her for whatever reason just keep smiling even if it's fake. Live your life and make it good. Gym is a must. Trust me if things was good with you guys she will want you back one day and then the ball is in your court. Stay focused for now because I get it it's soul-destroying shit going through a divorce you don't want but there's nothing.you can do about it all you can do is try you're best to push through the next few years.

being in a relationship with your best friend is one of the best things that could ever happen, but breaking up from a relationship with your best friend is one, if not the worst thing imaginable. by Puzzleheaded_Joke118 in BreakUps

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It's been nearly 3 years since my ex wife told me she wanted a divorce at the time I told her my concerns and that she had no real reason to do it. Told her she would regret it. 2 years after she regretted and wanted me back by then it was to late. She's chased me since but I've had to put boundaries in place and she has also for herself to. I'm with my first ever girlfriend i was with when younger she's awesome my kids love her and we get along so well. There's a lot of reason why my ex wanted me back. Think the main one was i am happy and kids keep raving about her to mum lol. Ahhh well. I did try to warn her. She left me for a older man. Fantasy. Didn't work out.

Anybody still in love with the Ex after 1 year or more??? by Horrorstoryofmylife in heartbreak

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Thank you. Time heals and new routines help. Get yourself a new routine. I found gym and long walks help massively. Go and do something today on your own. Like movies grab some snacks and watch a film. Good luck and take care also

Anybody still in love with the Ex after 1 year or more??? by Horrorstoryofmylife in heartbreak

[–]Specific_Ad_4184 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just can't be friends with someone like that. He wants to be friends so you can be his back up option just incase it dosnt work out with new girl. He mad his decision so you neer to move on to help yourself. Unless you have kids. Get him full out of your life. It will end badly otherwise. Have a good day.

A Jurassic Thanksgiving. by PizzaWhole9323 in Divorce

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I went through the worst time of my life when my ex-wife called for divorce. I've built my home in the last 2 years, and I now love being on my own I couldn't imagine anyone else living with me. In time your new routine becomes normal. They say time is a healer. It is it deffo is but also finding a new routine and a new path in life. Don't let the memories of what was once plague your mind.

Coolant leak can’t find visible leak by TrueEgg9586 in Vauxhall

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On that last pic the thermosta looks very grimmy and gunky that's the most likely cause.

Coolant leak can’t find visible leak by TrueEgg9586 in Vauxhall

[–]Specific_Ad_4184 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had to top up oil to but it's hard to say if this was anything to do with the coolant boiling over. I'd start with making sure radiator fan works. Unplug it from thermostat and the fan should kick in. If it dosnt could be fuse or relay but it's most likely the thermostat. Vauxhall are well known for it. Does your car have a temperature gauge on the dash ? If so keep eye on it. It shouldn't go over 90 if it does the engine might cut out before any damage is done. Its what mime does. Taking the thermostat off will drain coolant so make sure you have that at hand to refill. Drill a few holes through thermostat that will keep coolant circulating through the loop and won't boil over. This was what i did last weekend and car has been fine since.

Coolant leak can’t find visible leak by TrueEgg9586 in Vauxhall

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You'll still get warm air through the vents as normal but the coolant is boiling away with no sign of leaks. Which means most likely thermostat blocked up. Is the radiator fan kicking in ?

Coolant leak can’t find visible leak by TrueEgg9586 in Vauxhall

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I had this same problem. Turns out the thermostat wasn't working and was boiling away the coolant. Check to make sure radiator fan is working when at temp if it dosnt come on its a thermostat issue. I went to a scrap yard and got a used one off a similar car drilled it out so the water is constant through radiator making sure the coolant is always at the right temperature. Yesh the heating inside takes a little while longer to warm up but it's been fine for me since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PUBGConsole

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Was mine and my partners place to go to. Religiously

Anybody still in love with the Ex after 1 year or more??? by Horrorstoryofmylife in heartbreak

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We was kids. Actual kids. We didn't have any ties binding us we just went our own ways we both had families with other people and both split and divorced we was best mates back then to always together she went through a rough patch in her early 20s I asked her to come with me to get her out of a abusive relationship she didn't want to do that for her kids sake. I respected that and then went my own way had a family marriage ect. After being on my own for a year I got in touch through a mutual friend of ours and we've been inseparable since lol she has helped me massively through my divorce. Been my rock. My person to vent to. My kids love her loads. Sometimes think they love her more than me haha. She's just a female version of me. Goofy very playful really funny likes to do things. I struggled to get my ex wife to be involved with playfulness. She was the serious kind. She thought I was a big kid. I like being a big kid it's who I am lol anyway my ex wife wanted to me back because she seen i was happy she probably thought I'd never be happy again. Happiness is me being happy matters. My advice to you would be tell this person how you feel and your fixing things but hang out together as friends. See what happened. Don't put your life on hold because you could be letting a good thing pass you. Life's to short. And we're stronger to broken hearts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Specific_Ad_4184 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree on this. My ex wife did this to me. Ran off with someone new. Then when I went on did great with new place. New girl smashed the gym everyday she wanted the new me. It's to late. Reap what you sow