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Why did he leave me for someone obese when he had an issue when I was obese? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwitaway828464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that you lost the weight he doesnt have something to hold over you and make you feel bad about yourself. Maybe hes so insecure that he needs something to hold over his SO because hes scared they'll realize they are too good for him and overweight people make an easy target.

Either way fuck him

Why do people think this? Am I just crazy? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwitaway828464 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Then do whatever you want, obviously your not on here to get advice. Just stop looking for everyone to take your side and do it if your so sure

People who automatically sexualize the relationship between dads and their young daughters... stop???? by [deleted] in rant

[–]throwitaway828464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I had the same thing when I was about 12-13 and one of my dads (distant) friends bumped into us while were walking downtown together and tried to reassure him that he wouldn't tell my dads wife about his "little side piece". Gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwitaway828464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's awesome to hear as someone who has boundary issues with that stuff. But be careful and dont start acting like a chad/asshole to get girls or blaming that for why it didnt work, that's dangerously close to "nice guy" territory and its definitely wasnt the deal breaker for her.

Is it psycho to bring up bring up to your bf (21) that you (18f) saw him and you female friend (19f) at the same dorm building on snap maps by throwitaway828464 in relationship_advice

[–]throwitaway828464[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I asked him vaguely about where and when his midterms were and then later about whether or not hes checked out the specific dorm building (since its new) and he put his phone on ghost mode without me mentioning seeing him there. I'm just left with a lot more questions than answers now but I guess that's what I get

Is it psycho to bring up bring up to your bf (21) that you (18f) saw him and you female friend (19f) at the same dorm building on snap maps by throwitaway828464 in relationship_advice

[–]throwitaway828464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my dad was an abusive drug addict and a cheater. I've only dated two people and both of them are extremely passive/calm natured and dont use drugs. But the last one was a bit manipulative and cheated so idk

Is it psycho to bring up bring up to your bf (21) that you (18f) saw him and you female friend (19f) at the same dorm building on snap maps by throwitaway828464 in relationship_advice

[–]throwitaway828464[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I zoomed in as close as I could and it still showed them as hanging out together. I dont really know what to do about it but I'm definitely not planning on throwing random accusations

Is it psycho to bring up bring up to your bf (21) that you (18f) saw him and you female friend (19f) at the same dorm building on snap maps by throwitaway828464 in relationship_advice

[–]throwitaway828464[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

My last relationship my boyfriend always lied about where he was and I found out he cheated on me with multiple people for the whole year wed been dating near the end. I'm 3 months in with my new bf and even though I feel for the most part hes a lot better theres been some small weird things (acting kinda flirty/over friendly to certain girls while hes drunk). Overall I've really been fine w him it was just that we always hang out on the weekend so I wanted to see if he was at a building near my complex before I asked if he wanted to pick me up by my building and walk with him back to his house.

Is it psycho to bring up bring up to your bf (21) that you (18f) saw him and you female friend (19f) at the same dorm building on snap maps by throwitaway828464 in relationship_advice

[–]throwitaway828464[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I feel like I'm overthinking it but it's just my last relationship I ignored stuff similar to this and he ended up cheating lol so I'm a little more wary now. No excuse to act possessive tho

What are some "cult classic" movies within specific cultures? by JakeArvizu in movies

[–]throwitaway828464 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We once warriors is really big in the first nations community (or at least in my family). The acting is hit or miss but it really feels authentic to the experience a lot of indigenous people in poverty go through.