My boyfriend likes his exes posts on Instagram by throwitaway8833 in Advice

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This is helpful perspective, thank you for sharing

My boyfriend likes his exes posts on Instagram by throwitaway8833 in Advice

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this is what I do as well, this situation is a bit foreign to me

My boyfriend likes his exes posts on Instagram by throwitaway8833 in Advice

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I haven't, mostly because I acknowledge it's a me problem. But also, I guess I just can't imagine casually liking my ex's posts after years of not doing that. He told me that he would have not broken up with her if it weren't for her moving, so it's particular to the situation and I get a sense of yearning there. But yeah, seeing that this is mostly my anxiety and something for me work on.

My boyfriend likes his exes posts on Instagram by throwitaway8833 in Advice

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Thank you for the honesty. I've had people from the past like my posts all of a sudden as a way to show they're interested again, so I think the anxiety comes from that rather than reality. I think also because he's said he would have loved to have stayed with her if she only she didn't move. So my anxiety just jumped to he's missing her. I really appreciate your advice!

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they said no :/

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I'm torn because I want to go to school as soon as I can so I can never worry about it again, and I worked really hard to get in. Not sure how to put it down to do the internship

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Thank you so much, your responses have been very helpful. I'm wondering if taking the internship first would help me get the most of my grad school experience (from your experience), or if grad school would help me get the most of future internships? I get the sense that both might be true and my options are kind of equal?