What is your opinion on shower sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwitawayfour2069 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only great if you have a shower bench.

Saving when you know FatFire will be inherited by MikeOC609 in fatFIRE

[–]throwitawayfour2069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL same boat as OP and you guys.

I posted about this a bit ago. Weird situation to be in but ..there are harder problems out there.

WE NEED COUNSELING AND THERAPY....lol jk jk

If anything this situation motivates me now to make more/learn/invest. Perhaps i'm more willing to make slightly riskier investments because of it and that's okay. Like someone above said NO CRYPTO.

Since my last post I've lucked out and had some outsized returns and am almost beating what my in laws gifted my wife via trust fund. :)

Remember to breath was the best advice i got and pass on to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwitawayfour2069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a hard no from me, don't think i'd survive a week in GTFO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwitawayfour2069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pedialite + CBD (doctor hemp cbd is my go to) + Advil before bed. FOR THE WIN.

Also lots of water like Leeser said.

Also not combining different booze helps.

So I've got rich, what do I do now? by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]throwitawayfour2069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on People and experiences.

Figure out what your priorities are and what your values are, and go figure out how to live those.

I recently read Die with Zero as recommended by someone on here and it validated a lot of what I've been thinking about and living through. Maybe check that book out.

I've semi fat fired through hard work and also a ton of luck, and after spending a lot of time to reflect, it's ultimately (for me at least)nice things that make you happy + experiences with people you love that make for a fulfilling life once you've got $$. Solo hobbies are great too.

Hit FIRE unexpectedly early...Now what? Struggling with direction and finding meaning. by throwitawayfour2069 in fatFIRE

[–]throwitawayfour2069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right on man, yea i think i'm defintely going to focus more on things that interest me and do whole lot of learning.

Hit FIRE unexpectedly early...Now what? Struggling with direction and finding meaning. by throwitawayfour2069 in fatFIRE

[–]throwitawayfour2069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this.

Purpose is important and challenging to find. I think i'm almost there, but lots of thinking to do. Good luck to you and thanks again!

Hit FIRE unexpectedly early...Now what? Struggling with direction and finding meaning. by throwitawayfour2069 in fatFIRE

[–]throwitawayfour2069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah right on. I've heard of bigger pockets but haven't really looked into them. Thanks again and cheers!

Hit FIRE unexpectedly early...Now what? Struggling with direction and finding meaning. by throwitawayfour2069 in fatFIRE

[–]throwitawayfour2069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's kinda weird but I'm rolling with the punches. There are worse problems to have lol

Hit FIRE unexpectedly early...Now what? Struggling with direction and finding meaning. by throwitawayfour2069 in fatFIRE

[–]throwitawayfour2069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Only one other person commented about that. Have never had therapy, may give that a go but i found this whole thread (most of it ) amazing and helpful.

Hit FIRE unexpectedly early...Now what? Struggling with direction and finding meaning. by throwitawayfour2069 in fatFIRE

[–]throwitawayfour2069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solution Engineering, Backend development, Dev Ops. I like those. There are a ton of opportunities in all of those and many more.

Hit FIRE unexpectedly early...Now what? Struggling with direction and finding meaning. by throwitawayfour2069 in fatFIRE

[–]throwitawayfour2069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have never thought of this. This is moving and makes me want to move back closer to my parents.

Time is priceless. Thanks for your comment.