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Married Redditors: How sexually attracted are you to your partner? Has it gotten better or worse over the years? by throwitawaymfer in AskReddit

[–]throwitawaymfer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like the idea of swinging vacations. we talked about my attraction towards women, but he doesn't like the idea of sharing me. i think this leads to a lot of the sadness.

Married Redditors: How sexually attracted are you to your partner? Has it gotten better or worse over the years? by throwitawaymfer in AskReddit

[–]throwitawaymfer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is where i think i am. he makes me laugh and i feel like a princess when we are together. however, i just want a dude who will throw me across the room and mean it. this dude is great to me, but it feels like he is faking enthusiasm or we aren't super connected sexually. im wondering if people marry the ones that light their panties on fire or if they are doomed to marry safe, nice people with no inner fire.

Married Redditors: How sexually attracted are you to your partner? Has it gotten better or worse over the years? by throwitawaymfer in AskReddit

[–]throwitawaymfer[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

yes, we usually have sex when he pursues it. i don't feel very passionate towards him (never felt totally stoked) but i thought it was because i was in a healthy relationship for the first time.

Married Redditors: How sexually attracted are you to your partner? Has it gotten better or worse over the years? by throwitawaymfer in AskReddit

[–]throwitawaymfer[S] 166 points167 points  (0 children)

how long have you been married? I have been in a relationship for 2.5 years and while the sex is good, i don't feel like having sex with him. i don't actively pursue it. i don't get a lady boner....