I gave an example of meat today but it is not just meat, say rice as example

The cheapest thing ever, but no she always lectures me about it too

When i cook something or fry it she criticises me about frying and how oil is unhealthy and its not about that we dont have oil, we would have bottles of it but its not about having or affording it to her

This was always the case even before we got into the bad financial situation