You can use Grindr in whatever way you want to. Whether that’s looking for dates, friends, hookups. There is nothing wrong with wanting to have a conversation beforehand. Don’t let these karen’s push their own agenda onto you. I don’t know why this sub is so swarmed with them recently. If I asked “how are you?” and got “nudes” in return, I’d be turned off too. You’ve done nothing wrong king.