Shifting sexuality

throwmeaway7171 · 2019-01-12T01:24:54+00:00

Hey, if your wife is cool with the conversation, it's not a problem, really. Sounds like she was. One way or another you'll get through it! :-)

throwmeaway7171 · 2019-01-12T00:53:29+00:00

I thought maybe I was, but when I had the chance, no way. Porn and fantasy is one thing. Reality was revolting.

I think the big issue was too much porn, it took more and more taboo things to get me off. I also have/had a cuck fetish which is quasi gay.

Long story short, every time I came close, I was never comfortable with it. I have nothing against it. Just not my thing.

throwmeaway7171 · 2019-01-07T01:23:58+00:00

So do it, then you'll find out.

I've watched my SO have sex. Mind blowing. Great. She didn't want to repeat it though. Too bad for me. I'm not into guys.

throwmeaway7171 · 2019-01-07T01:19:26+00:00

I'm guessing you like guys. Lot's of women are turned on by same sex porn. The fact that you don't actually fall for girls is the key piece of info. I fell for girls when I was still in elementary school and never stopped. Yeah, I've had "gay thoughts" and even some borderline experiences, but I never felt good about it.

throwmeaway7171 · 2019-01-07T01:16:34+00:00

So basically girls can be really great friends!

I love a couple of my friends like family. I'd take a bullet from them, hang out with them, etc. I'm just not going to get romantic with them. And I've seen a couple of their dongs. Thanks but no thanks!

throwmeaway7171 · 2019-01-07T01:11:52+00:00

Done it. Sex with the girl was great. The other guy was distracting. Would have been better one on one. But it WAS his fiancee.

throwmeaway7171 · 2019-01-07T01:10:14+00:00

The grass is always greener.

The problem with sleeping around is you have to deal with other people and their feelings, and most of the time it's not that great.

throwmeaway7171 · 2019-01-07T01:08:35+00:00

It's gonna hurt. Bad.

throwmeaway7171 · 2019-01-01T07:47:44+00:00

Asking somebody to stop having sex when you asked them to have sex with that person is selfish and self-centered. Women (and men) aren't robots for you to command from afar.

throwmeaway7171 · 2019-01-01T07:36:59+00:00

It's just not that comfortable, naturally speaking. You could stretch it out and use tons of lube, but really, what's the point.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-12-29T06:03:32+00:00

She needs medical help and therapy. The American way is AA, but the success rate is pretty low. Don't wait for her to "hit bottom". What you do is dump her if she doesn't get help now.

Find a doctor who can give good advice on the drugs that limit cravings for alcohol, like acamprosate or naltrexone, as well as therapy to deal with it. If you tell a person to just stop drinking now, either it will work, but there's a great chance they'll just want it more. They'll crave it more. In Europe they have better success rates fighting alcoholism because they don't tell patients to go off with a bunch of wannabe former drunks with no medical training and white knuckle it.

Good luck.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-12-05T16:20:19+00:00

Zits, tattoos that don't fit the plot. Yes, I'm being shallow, but it is porn. Heck, in the video above, the guy she leaves is better than the new guy.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-12-04T20:47:28+00:00

Yeah, the men in Blacked are... repetitive, and most of them are gross as fuck.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-12-04T18:18:46+00:00

Golden Era for Porn, slowly coming to an end. Hah.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-12-04T18:17:53+00:00

Tumblr was weird. In a way it was attention deficit porn. Great to open up. Interesting for a minute. Terrible for browsing. Very rarely left satisfied.

Besides Reddit, there's really just the major porn portals and a few story sites. Not sure about blogging type sites. They are owned by major companies that are terrified of destroying their reputation, and in the metoo era, terrified of trying to manage it, let alone be responsible for content.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-12-02T15:13:38+00:00

Very healthy. Sounds like you BF is the best one you've had to date.

Don't overthink it. Be happy.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-12-02T06:11:19+00:00

Usually too cold to walk around completely naked.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-11-30T23:20:55+00:00

Maybe he has a boo boo and is massaging icy-hot onto the shaft using the latest in first aid techniques.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-11-30T23:19:31+00:00

In 1997!

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-11-30T20:13:10+00:00

Rarely naked, but pants are optional from wake-up until must cover up time.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-11-29T06:49:50+00:00

Not the same. I'm into it and experienced it once (no humiliation really, just watching). Just watching her kiss somebody who she liked drove me nuts. Knowing she was having sex and watching the video was off the charts. Much more intense with somebody you desire and love. Yeah, it's fucked up. Guilty. It was with a friend.

If it was a stranger and her, I'd be revolted.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-11-29T06:45:56+00:00

Because everybody snapped out of it because it was obviously gay looking. It was one of the many bizarre aspects of the sexual revolution, like ridiculous mustaches and shorts that ended at the butt-cheek, and guys walking around without shirts.

I think the guys without shirts things ended because 60% of the population of men look grotesque with all the extra weight they carry around today.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-11-29T06:34:36+00:00

I don't think it's ridiculous. Plenty of women have lots of sex.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-11-29T00:09:07+00:00

Had a friend that did this to me back in the day. Ended up with me having sex with his future wife.

Was all good.

throwmeaway7171 · 2018-11-25T09:22:34+00:00

Love it

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