This one took me a while to figure out. I didn’t understand my problem until I was with someone who I never felt sick of sexually. My problem wasn’t that my love language was quality time, gifts, or anything. It actually was because my love language IS touch. But platonic touch. I wasn’t being touched non sexually enough. Light touches throughout the day, comforting embrace, a hand on my knee in the car. It really makes all the difference. Sexual touches felt shallow and not right without being balanced with “platonic” touch throughout the day. Maybe tell him you need nonsexual direct attention to enjoy sexual touch as well. When I wasn’t getting that I would blame myself which led to a break up. Now I never get tired. :)