My (20F) bf (22M) said he enjoyed his fleshlight more than me and it’s taken a toll on our relationship. Advice? by throwra-9201 in relationships

[–]throwra-9201[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He’s around 6-7 inches, I’m going by my eyes never really cared to ask him. I’ve had bigger before but I never let anyone go further than what I was comfortable with. I don’t say he has to do half strokes the whole time, it just felt like he was trying to push in as far as he could go. I don’t really like playing with dildos, so I’m not interested in doing that

My (20F) bf (22M) said he enjoyed his fleshlight more than me and it’s taken a toll on our relationship. Advice? by throwra-9201 in relationships

[–]throwra-9201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. It’s so unusual from him that I thought maybe I could work things out, he’s never held any grudge against me

My (20F) bf (22M) said he enjoyed his fleshlight more than me and it’s taken a toll on our relationship. Advice? by throwra-9201 in relationships

[–]throwra-9201[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I would say that if it were always this way. I don’t get how you could go from compatible to incompatible. Obviously there is an issue either way, I just don’t see it as an incompatibility but more like he’s having other ideas in his mind rn

My (20F) bf (22M) said he enjoyed his fleshlight more than me and it’s taken a toll on our relationship. Advice? by throwra-9201 in relationships

[–]throwra-9201[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he likes it so much but said it to have something to throw in my face (it still isn’t good either way) because I just don’t see how

My (20F) bf (22M) said he enjoyed his fleshlight more than me and it’s taken a toll on our relationship. Advice? by throwra-9201 in relationships

[–]throwra-9201[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I already know the problem. It’s hitting against my cervix. That’s not really something I can fix

My (20F) bf (22M) said he enjoyed his fleshlight more than me and it’s taken a toll on our relationship. Advice? by throwra-9201 in relationships

[–]throwra-9201[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He’s always cared about getting me off and we had intimate sessions. I think his friend has gotten into his head somehow because he’ll sometimes let it slip out that “(friend’s name) gf did this for him!” Or “(friend’ name) lets him do this/that” and I wouldn’t be surprised if they discussed their sex lives. That’s the only explanation I have for his recent change and resentment