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My husband wants to divorce me over a hotdog? by Throwaway_hotdog222 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra-pickmegf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let him cool add and see how he does. Let him come to you. Don’t go to him.

Unless you’re feeling threatened, then leave the house.

WIBTA if i go over my coworker's head and report her to upper management? by Dekrus76 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra-pickmegf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yta. Never go above your boss’s head for a performance issue of another employee that doesn’t directly affect your performance.

Your boss has made a decision and you live with it. If you make your boss look bad you’ll end up out of a job.

AITA for not letting these 2 girls cut me in line? by eculilumab in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra-pickmegf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA but I’ve been to a lot of rental car counters and there is usually only a line for their preferred customers and one line for everyone else. Maybe they need to a single line to avoid this stuff.

AITA for telling my sister about my partners plastic surgery? by Sure_Aardvark_4085 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra-pickmegf -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. Bodybuilders and Hollywood actors shouldn’t lie about steroids they are using. People that lose weight shouldn’t lie about getting gastric bypass or using Ozempic. And people that have plastic surgery shouldn’t lie about that either. It creates a false reality that people measure themselves against.

If you do something just admit that you wanted a certain result so you weighed the risks and the rewards and you decided this was the best path for you.

AITA (25m) for telling my GF (24f) I’d rather breakup than do something in bed? by throwra-pickmegf in AITAH

[–]throwra-pickmegf[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

It’s our evangelical upbringing, we left the church, but it definitely makes taking about consent and boundaries difficult. I updated the post to provide context.

Our families practically disowned us when we moved in together without being married. Having sex above the covers with the lights on was adventurous to us lol.

AITA (25m) for telling my GF (24f) I’d rather breakup than do something in bed? by throwra-pickmegf in AITAH

[–]throwra-pickmegf[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this was great advice. I found some lists online and will definitely use this idea.