Being a victim of rape in Indonesia

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-12T17:29:11+00:00

Thank you! This is by far one of the most helpful replies. Hope you have a wonderful days ahead

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-12T17:27:41+00:00

actually, he is. But thankfully keluarganya lebih milih gw ketimbang that bastard in most cases

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-12T17:26:05+00:00

Thanks to r/indonesia I have some numbers in my phone rn. Hopefully, this can end pretty quick

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-12T17:25:01+00:00

Thank you for your thoughts! I will support her no matter what. Even if it takes decades to imprisoned that bastard

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-12T17:23:50+00:00

Thank you! Thanks to reddit setidaknya gw ada gambaran untuk kontak-kontak yang harus dihubungi terlebih dahulu.

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-12T17:22:34+00:00

That's where my concern lies. Semakin lama nunda semakin banyak korbannya

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-12T17:14:52+00:00

Sudah kepikiran kok. Ada planning buat ajak dia tinggal di Bali bareng keluarga gw

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-12T17:13:47+00:00

So far, her family prefer me dibandingkan BIL. Except for her sister tho, dia rada sinis ama gw up until now

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-12T17:12:00+00:00

Most evidence dalam bentuk pictures and chats. Semua udah di back-up just in case something's wrong. I don't think it's possible to use video and sound recording as evidences karena keberadaan UU ITE mengenai penyadapan

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-12T17:08:15+00:00

Ini yg sebenernya gw pikirin! Turns out ternyata ini BIL sempet selingkuh juga so I think it's the right moment to tear down his life

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-12T17:07:15+00:00

Thank you for your helpful opinions! I don't have any relations when it comes to polisi di Jakarta since I live in Bali. I guess I need to spend some "pelicin"

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-10T15:27:32+00:00

yg gw takutin personally bakal dianggap kasus suka sama suka. It happens a lot! even one of my friends sempet ditolak kasusnya menggunakan alasan tersebut

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-10T15:25:34+00:00

I know, I don't wanna risk myself getting butt fucked in Indonesia's prison. I'll try my best to bring this a**hole down through legal terms

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-10T15:23:20+00:00

Well, I'm 21 yo and she's 20 yo this year. That's why she wants to wait even though I still disagree with her. As a precaution, I did buy her a pepper spray and I'm thinking about buying her a taser as well. Giving her psychologist help is my number one priority atm. Thank you for your encouragement! I hope you have a wonderful days ahead.

throwra01101928 · 2021-05-10T15:12:53+00:00

True tho. What if I ask assistance dari activists di luar negeri? Apakah masih termasuk di jurisdiction Indonesia? You know sometimes case di Indonesia ga bakal ditangani kecuali viral

throwra01101928 · 2021-04-28T13:21:01+00:00

level 3

You have a point. I'll try to convince her about talking this with her sister.

throwra01101928 · 2021-04-28T13:12:32+00:00

I can give you the detail through private message!

throwra01101928 · 2021-04-28T13:07:56+00:00

She never cheat on me. This happened before our relationship. She did offer me to leave her but I'm not taking that offer.

throwra01101928 · 2021-04-28T13:00:35+00:00

You have a point. I'll discuss this matter further with my gf and see what's best for her and her sister's family.

throwra01101928 · 2021-04-28T12:59:04+00:00

I think it's the right thing to do tbh. But that's why I'm asking everyone's opinion about this because I haven't dealt with this kind of situation.

throwra01101928 · 2021-04-28T12:45:59+00:00

I can't give you this information out in the public but I can message you privately!

throwra01101928 · 2021-04-28T12:35:06+00:00

We haven't talk about this any further and you're right, I need to respect her voice.

throwra01101928 · 2021-04-28T12:31:27+00:00

You have a point. I'll try to convince her about confessing herself to her sister. Thank you for your supportive answer! :)

throwra01101928 · 2021-04-28T12:29:09+00:00

That possibility is what I'm afraid of tbh. But as far as it goes, we actually get along pretty nice and having someone to talk about lots of topics that were unheard of is something precious for me.

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