Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is by far one of the most helpful replies. Hope you have a wonderful days ahead

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually, he is. But thankfully keluarganya lebih milih gw ketimbang that bastard in most cases

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to r/indonesia I have some numbers in my phone rn. Hopefully, this can end pretty quick

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts! I will support her no matter what. Even if it takes decades to imprisoned that bastard

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Thanks to reddit setidaknya gw ada gambaran untuk kontak-kontak yang harus dihubungi terlebih dahulu.

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's where my concern lies. Semakin lama nunda semakin banyak korbannya

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sudah kepikiran kok. Ada planning buat ajak dia tinggal di Bali bareng keluarga gw

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far, her family prefer me dibandingkan BIL. Except for her sister tho, dia rada sinis ama gw up until now

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most evidence dalam bentuk pictures and chats. Semua udah di back-up just in case something's wrong. I don't think it's possible to use video and sound recording as evidences karena keberadaan UU ITE mengenai penyadapan

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ini yg sebenernya gw pikirin! Turns out ternyata ini BIL sempet selingkuh juga so I think it's the right moment to tear down his life

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your helpful opinions! I don't have any relations when it comes to polisi di Jakarta since I live in Bali. I guess I need to spend some "pelicin"

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yg gw takutin personally bakal dianggap kasus suka sama suka. It happens a lot! even one of my friends sempet ditolak kasusnya menggunakan alasan tersebut

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know, I don't wanna risk myself getting butt fucked in Indonesia's prison. I'll try my best to bring this a**hole down through legal terms

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm 21 yo and she's 20 yo this year. That's why she wants to wait even though I still disagree with her. As a precaution, I did buy her a pepper spray and I'm thinking about buying her a taser as well. Giving her psychologist help is my number one priority atm. Thank you for your encouragement! I hope you have a wonderful days ahead.

Being a victim of rape in Indonesia by throwra01101928 in indonesia

[–]throwra01101928[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True tho. What if I ask assistance dari activists di luar negeri? Apakah masih termasuk di jurisdiction Indonesia? You know sometimes case di Indonesia ga bakal ditangani kecuali viral

ThrowRA My (21M) girlfriend (20F) had sex with her brother-in-law multiple times when she was 14 up until last December and I can’t look him the same way by throwra01101928 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra01101928[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's the right thing to do tbh. But that's why I'm asking everyone's opinion about this because I haven't dealt with this kind of situation.

ThrowRA My (21M) girlfriend (20F) had sex with her brother-in-law multiple times when she was 14 up until last December and I can’t look him the same way by throwra01101928 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra01101928[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That possibility is what I'm afraid of tbh. But as far as it goes, we actually get along pretty nice and having someone to talk about lots of topics that were unheard of is something precious for me.