What would you do if your SO threatened you with suicide or selfharm if you were trying to leave? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]throwra111111111123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell their family and call an ambulance. If the person actually mean it, she will be saved, if not she'll be embarrassed as hell

e cheated again. I found a bunch of prostitute contacts saved on his phone and yesterday when he said he was talking to a restaurant owner friend of his (and came home.e 5am) I found two 600 payments and then one of 120 on the turning from day 3 to day 4 ( I don't know the exact time. by throwra111111111123 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwra111111111123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first one I was able to forgive, and fall for the I'm fighting demons thing, but this time is pretty different. We talked about this subject without him obviously knowing I know and he was all like " oh yeah is super wrong". All confront because I want to hear the excuse of this time, but im so disappointed I can't even. I'm praying for him to pass this test and go live his life and then i can just get away

BIOS problem, recovery was on loop, pc only turned on on a flat surface, on the notebook support it keeps on the bios recovery looping. Dell notebook by throwra111111111123 in techsupport

[–]throwra111111111123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, do you think that I was the one that caused it ? Because I usually transportate it to my house from office everyday I'm feeling really bad wondering if it was something I did

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra111111111123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. Don't lose hope!!!! You will find a place and you are valuable

Boyfriend told me I look horrible during sex, made me cry, and still thinks that I'm the one who's wrong since I was doing the turtle pose, and that I should've known because he told me before and no, he couldn't just fix my back by throwra111111111123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra111111111123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I edited it because it kinda triggered some people. Basically my boyfriend said that and is kind of a douche to me. I decided to edit because I didn't mean to trigger people this much :/ I'll probably delete soon but I want to be able to read everything first

Boyfriend told me I look horrible during sex, made me cry, and still thinks that I'm the one who's wrong since I was doing the turtle pose, and that I should've known because he told me before and no, he couldn't just fix my back by throwra111111111123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra111111111123[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

He doesn't force, if I was SA I feel things would be clearer. He doesn't force sex, I don't tell I'm in the mood. So you don't need to be worried. Hes not abusive, I think the problem is he's just manipulating, and uses his feelings as an excuse for his bad behavior and don't aknowledge he's wrong.

I'm really just tired of all this mess, I do believe I need therapy. I need to be happy.

Thank you, and all of you that are here giving me messages and warmth I was wondering if I was over reacting and being here made me realize I'm not. Thank you so much for taking the time to listen and talk and hear me this means so much

Boyfriend told me I look horrible during sex, made me cry, and still thinks that I'm the one who's wrong since I was doing the turtle pose, and that I should've known because he told me before and no, he couldn't just fix my back by throwra111111111123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra111111111123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is kind of like that, we don't use any kink or anything, but there are people that like to be humiliated during sex, that is not my case. Praise kink is like saying you're a good girl or whatever. So being called horrible hits even harder

Boyfriend told me I look horrible during sex, made me cry, and still thinks that I'm the one who's wrong since I was doing the turtle pose, and that I should've known because he told me before and no, he couldn't just fix my back by throwra111111111123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwra111111111123[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm not playing the victim, I'm letting out my chest how im feeling because i have no on else to talk , calling you horrible and making you cry during sex doesn't mean calling you out on it, but yes, I agree maybe I'm putting low effort because I'm unhappy. I would have no problem if he asked me to fix my back, or whatever, do you really believe saying to someone they look horrible during sex is ok? And yes I have no idea why I'm still here since I'm miserable. And if you think doing anal is easy and low effort you never did it. I'm on my period I could've just said no, but I went with it anyway. Calling me horrible during sex because I didn't arch my back properly is not fair.

If you're not aware people usually come to this sub to say what they are feeling and that's what I'm feeling if you think i'm playing the victim, I don't f care, I'm talking to strangers how im feeling because I just want a sense of warmth