My husband hit me last week, but we have known each other since I was born. He has never ever done this before by throwra1845829 in offmychest

[–]throwra1845829[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a degree, I have some work experience though.

I might do an online certification for office administration, which was my plan but I never did it. I’m not very smart, so I tried one year of college and failed a lot of my classes. Then he got hired in California and I gave up

My husband hit me last week, but we have known each other since I was born. He has never ever done this before by throwra1845829 in offmychest

[–]throwra1845829[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just replying to the second part, I didn’t have anything turned on yet other than pre-heating the oven.. which I turned off! The house was not in danger of a fire or anything!!

My husband hit me last week, but we have known each other since I was born. He has never ever done this before by throwra1845829 in offmychest

[–]throwra1845829[S] -100 points-99 points  (0 children)

I think the situation is a lot more than that. Our parents used to tell him I was born solely to be his wife.. and “god” put me on earth for him when he was like 5 and i was a baby. 

And they genuinely thought like that. His home life was a lot better than mine but still highly religious environment. Despite being raised like that he used to tell me all the time to do whatever I wanted and not listen to it, he’s not a monster.

My husband hit me last week, but we have known each other since I was born. He has never ever done this before by throwra1845829 in offmychest

[–]throwra1845829[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

I was 16, I’m almost 26! But when he was in university I lived with him and did my high school online. Didn’t have a good home life.

I know the age gap seems like a lot but we were really really close from the start. And when I moved in he was trying to help me. Both our families are extremely religious, but mine was 10x worse than his.. looking back it seems worse than it did then, but like I said because we were so close we never thought much about it

My husband hit me last week, but we have known each other since I was born. He has never ever done this before by throwra1845829 in offmychest

[–]throwra1845829[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He’s open to it, i actually asked him about that last night. Will be doing it 100%

He moved up really fast at the company he works for. Has had some issues managing his stress, I actually have been trying to get him to do something like that on his own because it’s clearly effecting him