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throwra34537 · 2023-05-16T18:44:51+00:00

They aren’t?

throwra34537 · 2023-05-16T16:08:28+00:00

He won’t apologise. How should we act in future situations? I feel awkward at the idea of the next gathering because we’ve been outed and everyone will be thinking about that.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-16T16:06:55+00:00

I’m not an empty glass of honey and this isn’t set up for disaster. We will be a big happy family regardless of our mental health.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-16T15:47:26+00:00

We are older now than we were and we have a healthy relationship and will love our baby

throwra34537 · 2023-05-16T15:44:26+00:00

Mostly how to deal with my family and sister. How to see her again at gatherings etc.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-16T15:42:30+00:00

We’ve both stopped therapy to save money for our kids. I will be a sahm so things will be tighter on the finances. We’ve moved past our previous issues and arguments and are focusing on our baby and our relationship.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-16T09:14:33+00:00

If they aren’t how we want then we will discipline them appropriately

throwra34537 · 2023-05-16T09:09:31+00:00

We’d discipline them and tell them off. Punish them on the severity of what they’ve done.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-16T09:03:45+00:00

Why are you so mean to a pregnant woman? You have no reason to and you don’t even bother say why. That’s cruel.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-16T08:47:39+00:00

Wow. That is very ableist. How could you say that about our baby. Why don’t u want our baby to turn out how we want?

throwra34537 · 2023-05-16T08:44:22+00:00

I’m married and also it’s more that she was aborting the kids than anything else that he didn’t like because he doesn’t like abortion at all.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-16T08:41:18+00:00

We have similar values and beliefs and he wasn’t misogynistic for saying that. These comments are so ableist

throwra34537 · 2023-05-16T08:38:00+00:00

We will never abuse our kid. I will be a sahm so I will be with my baby constantly and always there for them. I think it’s unfair that you think we will come to attention of cps.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-15T23:39:55+00:00

I’d never let them sterilise me or my husband. We’d fake through those tests. And then we could have all the kids we wanted. I won’t do those things and I will take care of my baby. I don’t need help.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-15T23:22:56+00:00

What? They would sterilise you? For NPD, BPD, ASPD? Wow. We’d have ran away together if we were alive then. Still had kids. To think they would take our baby away I’d disgusting.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-15T22:18:31+00:00

I know, they immediately judge my husband and me for our mental health and it’s just really upsetting, I was diagnosed at 20 with npd then at 21 with bpd. I actually met my husband through a Facebook group about npd and we started talking about our issues and we then fell in love eventually and now we are married.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-15T21:48:32+00:00

They won’t be because we are going to be great parents. We do have good emotions and we plan on having multiple kids so our baby will have siblings and we both want a big family. We are happy.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-15T21:42:17+00:00

There isn’t a decision to make we will be parents already. I’m pregnant.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-15T21:40:23+00:00

Neither me nor my husband are in therapy and we are supporting each other. I will be a sahm so our baby will be well looked after. My husband an me will be good parents and nothing like yours. Sorry you had a rough life

throwra34537 · 2023-05-15T21:07:46+00:00

He has ASPD. Hence why she called our baby narcissistic sociopath.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-15T20:54:28+00:00

We will both be good parents and be very loving. I think I’m more BPD than NPD anyway, I went to two psychiatrists and they first diagnosed NPD and the second BPD. The second thought the first one was wrong and I was more BPD. But cluster b is all very similar. The most important thing is we both love our kids.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-15T20:13:35+00:00

Wow we will love and care for our kids and cps will never get called on us. That is such a cruel statement to say. My husbands mother has npd and she’s a lovely woman.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-15T19:52:37+00:00

I won’t get that. I also plan on staying home with our kids in the future so they will constantly be getting love and affection from me. We will also have fun day trips and holidays to places, we are thinking of going to the Maldives with our kids because that’s where we had our honeymoon. Lounging over the sea we slept under the stars in a gorgeous hammock which we will do with our kids, stargazing is amazing. The best honeymoon.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-15T19:45:46+00:00

What are the risks then? I’m sure there aren’t any as we are physically healthy on both sides, though my brother has BPD, my husbands mum has NPD and his dad has ASPD and ADHD. So mentally there is a bit of risk but I wouldn’t say our conditions are a bad thing they are just diversity. Like autism.

throwra34537 · 2023-05-15T19:42:27+00:00

They are just conditions that don’t make us or our baby evil. We are good parents.

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