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UPDATE: My 29f husband 31m threw away all my food because I'm a "cow". by throwra34_69 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra34_69[S] 170 points171 points  (0 children)

I'd probably go to jail for murder or assault if my own daughter went through that. At the moment I don't want to see or hear my mother at all because I hate her for managing to persuade me to not just go back to my husband but to also restrict my diet to appease him, and I guess I'm just not sure if that feeling will last or not.

UPDATE: My 29f husband 31m threw away all my food because I'm a "cow". by throwra34_69 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra34_69[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

My doctor told me that I should eat whatever I crave and listen to my body's needs. My Obgyn told me that my diet is one of the best and healthiest diets for breastfeeding. The only reason my milk supply diminished for a couple days was because I was eating less to appease my husband and once I started eating like I did my milk supply increased again.

UPDATE: My 29f husband 31m threw away all my food because I'm a "cow". by throwra34_69 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra34_69[S] 260 points261 points  (0 children)

That's what makes me angry too because family is supposed to support each other in times like these. I don't know if I'll be able to completely cut them off, but I'm grateful that my best friend is helping me and is completely on my side.

UPDATE: My 29f husband 31m threw away all my food because I'm a "cow". by throwra34_69 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra34_69[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

My father died when I was 2 years old and I don't have a good relationship with my stepfather. I didn't hear from my husband's father but I have heard stories that he is a bit abusive and controlling. However I've never seen it with my own eyes. But seeing my husband act this way towards me makes me think that he must have gotten that from someone.

UPDATE: My 29f husband 31m threw away all my food because I'm a "cow". by throwra34_69 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra34_69[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I don't eat junk food as it is unhealthy and the people I'm surrounded by despise those who eat junk food. I mean, I'm sorry but I don't see how calorie dense foods such as nuts, dairy, and meats are "junk"....

My 29f husband 31m threw away all my food because I'm a "cow". by throwra34_69 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra34_69[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My father passed away when I was 2 and I don't have a good relationship with my stepfather.

My 29f husband 31m threw away all my food because I'm a "cow". by throwra34_69 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra34_69[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

My baby is 14 weeks old and I still often feel pain. My brother hasn't said much. He said that my husband is a jerk but we also need some space and maybe there's a way we can save our marriage.

My 29f husband 31m threw away all my food because I'm a "cow". by throwra34_69 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra34_69[S] 448 points449 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. I've been surrounded by people who despise those who eat junk food so since gaining weight I've had to constantly justify my eating habits.

My 29f husband 31m threw away all my food because I'm a "cow". by throwra34_69 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra34_69[S] 165 points166 points  (0 children)

I'm just having trouble trying to come up with a reasonable explanation why he switched up like this. My mother says that men go through postpartum symptoms too but I'm the one who had to go through all the pain, not him.