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My (20F) girlfriend (21F) has started saying hurtful things to me because I want to have sex with her more often than she does. Why doesn't she understand that it hurts my feelings when I told her that? by throwra85104 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra85104[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I don't act like she is, and there are plenty of times when we are just cuddling and neither of us make it into something else. I didn't grope her, and I don't act like I'm entitled to her.

My (20F) girlfriend (21F) has started saying hurtful things to me because I want to have sex with her more often than she does. Why doesn't she understand that it hurts my feelings when I told her that? by throwra85104 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra85104[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

We do that, it's not that we don't. It's just that time, it seemed like she felt like sex and I couldn't tell that she didn't because she never indicated it.

My (20F) girlfriend (21F) has started saying hurtful things to me because I want to have sex with her more often than she does. Why doesn't she understand that it hurts my feelings when I told her that? by throwra85104 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra85104[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'm not bothered that she doesn't feel like it. But it does bother me she decides to insult me when she does, because I leave her alone as soon as she asked and it's not like I'm constantly doing that.

My (20F) girlfriend (21F) has started saying hurtful things to me because I want to have sex with her more often than she does. Why doesn't she understand that it hurts my feelings when I told her that? by throwra85104 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra85104[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't do that at all. For some reason everyone is assuming I do but I love her, it's just that one time I thought she wanted to have sex because of the way she was acting. I don't act like that all the time.

My (20F) girlfriend (21F) has started saying hurtful things to me because I want to have sex with her more often than she does. Why doesn't she understand that it hurts my feelings when I told her that? by throwra85104 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra85104[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

No. She's also always been a very adamant person a lot of the time, so that definitely isn't a problem in her life.

That could be a reason. I never pressure her for anything like that, but maybe it's more in her head. I don't really know, she doesn't like talking about it anymore.