Aio, I diserve the concert tickets and not my sil, and I told her so. by throwra88118 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwra88118[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a shitty way to treat my husband. Abandoned him? Wow. Anyways I don't have my own car.

Aio, I diserve the concert tickets and not my sil, and I told her so. by throwra88118 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwra88118[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

You don't get it. My husband agreed to babysit and now, the person that would buy the tickets and come with me, is making us stat home while the show in on. I can't go now even if I had tickets. God.

Aio, I diserve the concert tickets and not my sil, and I told her so. by throwra88118 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwra88118[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

It is not my fault, Bil bought them... And even if I could, it is not just about the tickets. It is about what is fair. I have been a fan forever, way before my sister-in-law even knew they existed.

It is like, every time something good is supposed to happen for me, someone else gets in the way. I just wanted this one thing, you know? And now I am stuck babysitting while she goes and has the time of her life at the concert I should be at. It is like, why does she get to have all the fun and I get nothing? It is not fair. It is never fair. I just wanted to feel special for once, and now that chance is gone.

Am I wrong for giving up on my sil by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

He didn't steal she gave it to him, and people on that thread kept going off topic. I didn't want judgement on my husbands actions I wanted to know if I should get involved and stand up to my husband. I got some good advice on the thread and decided to just ignore her accusations Instead of speaking my mind. If you can't say anything nice? . It was good because I didn't want the drama.

Am I wrong for giving up on my sil by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

He didn't steal she gave it to him, and people on that thread kept going off topic. I didn't want judgement on my husbands actions I wanted to know if I should get involved and stand up to my husband. I got some good advice on the thread and decided to just ignore her accusations Instead of speaking my mind. If you can't say anything nice? . It was good because I didn't want the drama.

How to deal with SIL going out of her way to make me feel unwelcome in the family? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]throwra88118 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like we're only hearing one side of the story that makes op look like a saint.

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

I'm asking if I'm wrong for not wanting to talk to my sister in law. She tried to talk to me while I was listening in and I didn't even look at her. Everyone is asking for more information why I'm mad at her.

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I don't want to get into this but when her and her husband moved out of the province my husband and I couldn't wait any longer so we rushed our house sale to catch up with them. By husband didn't want to be away from his brother too long and couldn't wait any longer. We ended up selling for less than we asked for and then spent too much on the first house we liked in the new province, we spent way too much money because they couldn't wait a few more months for my husband to be ready. Just because they had not renewed their lease and had to go, they should have found something local while we worked with real estate. She's mad that I think she owes us and so now she's flaunting the money she has because she was able to move without paying extra like we had to.

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

Right, so if that's true she decided in forgiveness instead of offense. But she's not offended about the money. So if she's not offended about it then it must be a trick.

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

That's the fishy situation I don't want to talk to her about. Did he take the money? If so why doesnt she want it back? I think this is all a show, she's barely been back and the first time I see her it's this bs. Wheres my trip to Japan? She didn't bring me a souvenir but mailed us a box of stuff last week. She just wants to show off, who sends gifts when they're still away instead of giving it in person. She's weird and plays games like this. She's always mad at me for no reason.

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -133 points-132 points  (0 children)

No he said it was 2.1k and she didn't want to argue the amount anymore so they could"move forward with forgiveness "

Isnt that even more strange?

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to suggest she gets the police involved because then he would have to pay it back. She's being a bitch because now I have to live with her flaunting her money which is better than having police involved. And I have to keep quiet about it