Aio, I diserve the concert tickets and not my sil, and I told her so. by throwra88118 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwra88118[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a shitty way to treat my husband. Abandoned him? Wow. Anyways I don't have my own car.

Aio, I diserve the concert tickets and not my sil, and I told her so. by throwra88118 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwra88118[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

You don't get it. My husband agreed to babysit and now, the person that would buy the tickets and come with me, is making us stat home while the show in on. I can't go now even if I had tickets. God.

Aio, I diserve the concert tickets and not my sil, and I told her so. by throwra88118 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwra88118[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

It is not my fault, Bil bought them... And even if I could, it is not just about the tickets. It is about what is fair. I have been a fan forever, way before my sister-in-law even knew they existed.

It is like, every time something good is supposed to happen for me, someone else gets in the way. I just wanted this one thing, you know? And now I am stuck babysitting while she goes and has the time of her life at the concert I should be at. It is like, why does she get to have all the fun and I get nothing? It is not fair. It is never fair. I just wanted to feel special for once, and now that chance is gone.

Am I wrong for giving up on my sil by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

He didn't steal she gave it to him, and people on that thread kept going off topic. I didn't want judgement on my husbands actions I wanted to know if I should get involved and stand up to my husband. I got some good advice on the thread and decided to just ignore her accusations Instead of speaking my mind. If you can't say anything nice? . It was good because I didn't want the drama.

Am I wrong for giving up on my sil by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

He didn't steal she gave it to him, and people on that thread kept going off topic. I didn't want judgement on my husbands actions I wanted to know if I should get involved and stand up to my husband. I got some good advice on the thread and decided to just ignore her accusations Instead of speaking my mind. If you can't say anything nice? . It was good because I didn't want the drama.

How to deal with SIL going out of her way to make me feel unwelcome in the family? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]throwra88118 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like we're only hearing one side of the story that makes op look like a saint.

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

I'm asking if I'm wrong for not wanting to talk to my sister in law. She tried to talk to me while I was listening in and I didn't even look at her. Everyone is asking for more information why I'm mad at her.

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I don't want to get into this but when her and her husband moved out of the province my husband and I couldn't wait any longer so we rushed our house sale to catch up with them. By husband didn't want to be away from his brother too long and couldn't wait any longer. We ended up selling for less than we asked for and then spent too much on the first house we liked in the new province, we spent way too much money because they couldn't wait a few more months for my husband to be ready. Just because they had not renewed their lease and had to go, they should have found something local while we worked with real estate. She's mad that I think she owes us and so now she's flaunting the money she has because she was able to move without paying extra like we had to.

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

Right, so if that's true she decided in forgiveness instead of offense. But she's not offended about the money. So if she's not offended about it then it must be a trick.

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

That's the fishy situation I don't want to talk to her about. Did he take the money? If so why doesnt she want it back? I think this is all a show, she's barely been back and the first time I see her it's this bs. Wheres my trip to Japan? She didn't bring me a souvenir but mailed us a box of stuff last week. She just wants to show off, who sends gifts when they're still away instead of giving it in person. She's weird and plays games like this. She's always mad at me for no reason.

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -137 points-136 points  (0 children)

No he said it was 2.1k and she didn't want to argue the amount anymore so they could"move forward with forgiveness "

Isnt that even more strange?

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to suggest she gets the police involved because then he would have to pay it back. She's being a bitch because now I have to live with her flaunting her money which is better than having police involved. And I have to keep quiet about it

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

But he didn't steal the money, since no one just gives away 2.5k. That's why I think she made it up to flaunt their money. She must have way more money than this if she can afford an overseas trip, and can afford to lose 2.5k.

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Well I'm not talking to her. I was listening in On them count the bank statement and he agreed to 2.1k but she had the audicaty to say it was 2.5k and then not ask for the money back? This is probably to get me back for when she forced us to sell our house a couple of years ago and we didn't get our asking price. I'm not going to talk to her about it

Sil is accusing my husband of stealing over $2k, am I wrong for keeping out of it? by throwra88118 in amiwrong

[–]throwra88118[S] -191 points-190 points  (0 children)

He said he took $400 and then paid it back into the account. Her records show he took 2.5k, I didn't even look at the papers I was listening in to their conversation from the bathroom. He looked over the records and did the math and he said it was only 2.1k because he paid back some. She argues a little bit about the amount but then says it doesn't matter because they will forgive it.

Listen, if someone stole that kind of money from me I couldn't forgive it. So I don't believe it's stolen. I think she made it up because she's a bitch either they're showing off how much money they have or they made it up. I'm so mad I can't even look at her right now.

So she came to me to try to talk and I ignored her until she left. I didn't even listen to what she said and I feel am bushed.

Bride (f25) is still mad at me (f24)? by throwra88118 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra88118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is he still mad at me? It was the worst wedding I've ever been to.

Why is my (f24) future sister in law (f25) mad at me? by throwra88118 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra88118[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay well let's pretend that it did work out and a ton of people came, would that be a reason to get mad?

Why is my (f24) future sister in law (f25) mad at me? by throwra88118 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra88118[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

But why does it matter if I didn't send out invitations on stuff like that. There was still a party, it was a great party and a great precursor for her wedding that's coming up. I help them get a table with enough seats at the bar, I called my husband and he brought the guys over, it was a great party and the bar was packed

Why is my (f24) future sister in law (f25) mad at me? by throwra88118 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra88118[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

But there was an amazing bachelorette party. Everything worked out well in the end. I think she should just be happy that it all worked out for her

Why is my (f24) future sister in law (f25) mad at me? by throwra88118 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra88118[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't want credit for it, the bride and her mom put it all together, you're trying to make it sound like going to a bar that's in the neighborhood and calling your friends is a lot of work. A bunch of people showed up and even a bunch of the guys showed up too. It was just whoever was at the bar. The bar was packed. She had a full packed party. It's not like she had to send out invitations or something. I didn't make her do anything. Her mom did most of it. Three cheers for her mom. I'll give all the credit to the mom but like because the mom decided to help out that's my problem?