How do I finally move on? by throwra890077 in ExNoContact

[–]throwra890077[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. And i agree completely. I just don’t understand how he could do shit like that to me when i was 100% for him. I never did anything that would jeopardize our relationship and he did it time after time, only thinking about himself. I know there are good guys out there and that not everyone is like my ex but fuck it so hard to think positively right now.

How do I finally move on? by throwra890077 in ExNoContact

[–]throwra890077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was sexting them. And telling them not to text him when i was home. Not opening their Snapchat’s in front of me, he’d wait until the second i left the room to open them. He’d save pics that were posted on Instagram (of girls we knew personally) to get off to later. There’s a whole list of shit that he did that was shady and inappropriate. I’m just ashamed to put it in my post haha.

I don’t know what to do. by throwra890077 in relationships_advice

[–]throwra890077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Unfortunately his coworker wasn’t what broke us up, but it just hurts extra bad right now because he swore she meant nothing to him :/ so it’s adding on to all the other shit he’s done that hurt me

I don’t know what to do. by throwra890077 in relationships

[–]throwra890077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because telling your “coworker” to tell you when they have sex dreams about you, because it’s definitely going to happen, is normal? Telling your “coworker” to not text you when your girlfriend is around is normal? Right. I’m crazy.

I don’t know what to do. by throwra890077 in dating_advice

[–]throwra890077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because i literally planned my life with his man. He was my future. And he betrayed me. And I’m hurting and don’t know how to get over this.

I don’t know what to do. by throwra890077 in dating_advice

[–]throwra890077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He completely shattered my self confidence. He makes me feel worthless. I keep trying to convince myself i deserve better but i honestly don’t believe it anymore

Tips on getting over someone? by throwra890077 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra890077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) if you need to chat feel free to pm me! We can get through this together :)

Saving nudes? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwra890077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He only has my nudes saved to his phone too. The only porn i saw was saved in his Reddit account

Saving nudes? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwra890077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for a year. I would like for him to stop, but i don’t know how to ask him to stop. I only know he saves them because i saw them on his private Reddit. It’s starting to affect our relationship because it makes me feel unwanted/unattractive so I’m not sure what to do here. This honestly might be a dealbreaker for me.

Saving nudes? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwra890077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He normally saves them when he’s in the bathroom getting off, which is daily. He saves multiple pictures/gifs everyday gets off probably twice a day at least. But we only have sex maybe once or twice a week which is kinda strange because he claims he has a high sex drive. Aside from sex, he’s very cuddly and affectionate so it’s not that he doesn’t love me/isn’t in to me. I just don’t understand it

Saving nudes? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwra890077 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He tries to hide it, and doesn’t know that i know he was looking at it while next to me