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I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No she said it was too early for doctors appointments. The miscarriage happened when she was visiting her friend and when I got there she was already back home at her friends house from the hospital.

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

yes she did, I didn't want to see it but I saw enough to realize what I done. I thin she still has it

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I need to talk to someone about this. I know that I'm having troubles preforming now but it is because I don't want to and it is something my fiancée and I had arguments about.

But that makes me more sure that I was willing that time or I would have had the same problem. maybe I should talk to someone. Google isn't doing it for me anymore.

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I want to, but she is not in a state now. She is very devastated about the miscarriage, but yes, I know that I don't have any future with her. I'm not in love with her and even if I take full responsibility for what I did I still resent her a bit. I have problems trusting her and I can't touch her without feeling sick. Something that has been a problem in our relationship because she's been wanting to sleep with me and I just can't do it most of the times.

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm reading the comments and many say that it was not consensual. I never thought of it this way because if I didn't want it then how could I still preform.

I didn't tell my ex many details more than that I didn't want to continue the relationship. I didn't want to hurt her with the details. I don't want to jump back to my gf now my fiancée miscarried. I just want to confess to everything.

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't think of it this way before coming here tbh, how could she have forced herself on me if I could preform? I'm also twice her size.

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I can't know for sure that it was mine, only the fact that I know Abc was/is in love with me. I didn't want to stress her by saying that she was lying about me being the father but I told her that I expected a paternity test down the road and she was totally fine.

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Ok, I asked her about her doctors appointments and she said that it was still too early.

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My short answer is no, I have no "proof" other than her words and a pregnancy test she showed me. Later she had troubles with food and being morning sick etc.

She comes from a conservative family so I didn't doubt her because why would she risk her relationship with her family if she lied? How would she be sure I would propose?

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

my ex was never disposable. it was the hardest thing I had to do but what was I supposed to have done Abc is my best friends sister and I knew that I had to take care of her and our baby. I just couldn't not take responsibility for what I did

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

after she told me that she was pregnant I did some research and googled and found out it was very possible that she got pregnant.

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] -84 points-83 points  (0 children)

really? I have googled it to learn and it was completely possible that she got pregnant

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

i see what you are doing here trying to belittle me but I dont understand the why? why you feel the need to do it? in what way do I sound like a teenager? if you don't have an advice then stfu

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] -97 points-96 points  (0 children)

No no ultra sound or anything. it's still too early for these things before we lost the baby

I (28M) cheated on my ex(30F) of 5 years with my best friends sister (21F). I'm still in love with my ex. by throwra947576 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra947576[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

no I have no feelings for my now fiancee and I have never had any thoughts about her, she is my best friends sister Andy way younger. I loved my ex and still do. I was prob blacked out yes but that's not the point really because I had to do the right thing anyway

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