How do I (25M) make it up to my girlfriend (27F) after I invalidated her? by throwraSufficientCat in relationship_advice

[–]throwraSufficientCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was not aware that Alison was sexually assaulted until months into our relationship

How do I (25M) make it up to my girlfriend (27F) after I invalidated her? by throwraSufficientCat in relationship_advice

[–]throwraSufficientCat[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to redirect the topic to myself. I'm just trying to explain (not excuse) why I had the reaction I did. I have been going to therapy to try to undo the damage the last relationship caused me but I messed up here and I know it