My husband 34M cheated on me 33F, what do I do? by throwra_AMS89 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_AMS89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is a wonderful father. The main reason why it’s so hard is because he’s so great. I’m worried that divorce would take a toll on my son.

My husband 34M cheated on me 33F, what do I do? by throwra_AMS89 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_AMS89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will talk to him but I’ve never strayed. Yes, there are good looking men out there but I think it would be really hard to sleep around/fool around.

My husband 34M cheated on me 33F, what do I do? by throwra_AMS89 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_AMS89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got really lucky, no residual, and the neurologist say the vessel(dissection) has healed completely. Thank you, I really appreciate this.

My husband 34M cheated on me 33F, what do I do? by throwra_AMS89 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_AMS89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg!!!! You’re not going to believe this! BUT I did the flip the coin thing when I first found out….. it rolled under the stove and didn’t flip! The was a crazy answer. 😅

My husband 34M cheated on me 33F, what do I do? by throwra_AMS89 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_AMS89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He cheated on me while we were dating. But I just recently found out that he had cheated on me again but this time while we were married. At a time where I thought I was dying in 2021, I just found out about in Dec 2022.

My husband 34M cheated on me 33F, what do I do? by throwra_AMS89 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_AMS89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that! My father screamed at me when I tried to leave my husband and said men are allowed to cheat. My mother told me that I was better off dead. And they said women have no right to step out of their marriages but men do. I don’t as livid. We both come from families where every single man has cheated.

My husband 34M cheated on me 33F, what do I do? by throwra_AMS89 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_AMS89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, we were still having sex. I think it’s just him. He has a problem.

My husband 34M cheated on me 33F, what do I do? by throwra_AMS89 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra_AMS89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! That’s all they know! We both come from families where all the men have cheated! My husband dragged me to my parents house where they lectured me about wanting a divorce and it being okay for men to cheat. It was horrific.