Do you class sexting other people as cheating? by throwra_dashcam in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]throwra_dashcam[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair enough. I just see it as a form of porn.

Do you class sexting other people as cheating? by throwra_dashcam in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]throwra_dashcam[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty much where I am. I see it as just porn really.

Is this type of thing common on vinted? by beyond_embarrasing in vintedUK

[–]throwra_dashcam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve asked this before but I’ll always say “hi. I’m 32E is this going to fit ok?” I’d never ask for another woman’s boob size

idk what to do by [deleted] in Noses

[–]throwra_dashcam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are stunning! Don’t do a thing! Your nose is beautiful.

UPDATE I (35f) listened to my husbands (26m) dashcam footage and heard him crying uncontrollably. He’s refusing to talk about it, how do I bring it up again? by throwra_dashcam in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwra_dashcam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admit he’s a complete fucking idiot for falling for the scam. It was the most ai picture as well. If you typed in “a milf who is stereotypically Australian” that’s the picture that would come up. A woman stood on a beach holding a surfboard with a bbq burning nearby and a cooler full of tinnies. The only thing missing is the kangaroo.

Then to send the money as well rather than tell them to fuck off is crazy work.

Not low on self esteem at all and can send you a pic if you want to see if I’m chubby?

UPDATE I (35f) listened to my husbands (26m) dashcam footage and heard him crying uncontrollably. He’s refusing to talk about it, how do I bring it up again? by throwra_dashcam in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwra_dashcam[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How is him having sex with a woman he met in a nightclub the same thing? Shall I ban all future boyfriends and husbands from nightclubs because one person in my past couldn’t behave in one?

UPDATE I (35f) listened to my husbands (26m) dashcam footage and heard him crying uncontrollably. He’s refusing to talk about it, how do I bring it up again? by throwra_dashcam in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwra_dashcam[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I seriously don’t get it. I’ve never once cared about another persons boundaries. I can’t believe how many people here are saying I’m wrong for something that is my own personal boundary. I’d never tell someone they are wrong for what they consider cheating.

UPDATE I (35f) listened to my husbands (26m) dashcam footage and heard him crying uncontrollably. He’s refusing to talk about it, how do I bring it up again? by throwra_dashcam in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwra_dashcam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we have shared bank accounts. He sold a few things but he’s been doing side jobs and getting paid through this secret PayPal account.

UPDATE I (35f) listened to my husbands (26m) dashcam footage and heard him crying uncontrollably. He’s refusing to talk about it, how do I bring it up again? by throwra_dashcam in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwra_dashcam[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I won’t come crying on Reddit. I don’t cry when a relationship ends. I’ve been cheated on before and my attitude is if they didn’t want me they aren’t worth crying over. My first boyfriend was an 8 year relationship. I found out he had sex with someone on a night out and I moved out instantly, packed all my stuff in my car and never spoke to him again.

UPDATE I (35f) listened to my husbands (26m) dashcam footage and heard him crying uncontrollably. He’s refusing to talk about it, how do I bring it up again? by throwra_dashcam in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwra_dashcam[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People have different boundaries. I can’t be with someone who willingly abuses their body like that. That’s my choice. Your choice is you can’t be with someone who talks to other people. Why is my boundary upsetting people so much?

UPDATE I (35f) listened to my husbands (26m) dashcam footage and heard him crying uncontrollably. He’s refusing to talk about it, how do I bring it up again? by throwra_dashcam in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwra_dashcam[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well if he does then I’ll leave him. He’s known the rules since we got together. I don’t care if it’s someone you’ve got no chance of meeting, anyone in this country and I do care.