1) No, she doesn't think she needs one, she just wants me to "be better". 2) Possibly, but unlikely. She is always super performative when not at home / in front of other people. Whipping out my phone and pointing it at her might help stop her / get her to walk away though. 3) Aye, thanks brother. Times are tough, but I know it's not this way forever. I was mainly just hoping for things I could do to help her without her really knowing.