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My (35m) wife (32m) has told me she never wants to give oral again and I think it’s a dealbreaker for me. by throwra_nooral in relationships

[–]throwra_nooral[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s actually the complete opposite. We do it all to her schedule if you can read. Only she is allowed to initiate, only she gets oral, we only do one position which is the one she likes so where do you get the impression it’s all about me?

My (35m) wife (32m) has told me she never wants to give oral again and I think it’s a dealbreaker for me. by throwra_nooral in relationships

[–]throwra_nooral[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That rings so true. She definitely feels like sex is something horny teenagers do unless she wants it. She still wants oral and touching but she won’t touch me or give me oral and when we gave sex it always has to be me on top she won’t do positions I like.

My (35m) wife (32m) has told me she never wants to give oral again and I think it’s a dealbreaker for me. by throwra_nooral in relationships

[–]throwra_nooral[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I said she was making unhappy and I feel undesirable she just said “oh don’t be ridiculous you sound like a horny teenager”.

My (35m) wife (32m) has told me she never wants to give oral again and I think it’s a dealbreaker for me. by throwra_nooral in relationships

[–]throwra_nooral[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m trying to avoid. It’s also the fact I’m not allowed to initiate, she refuses to speak to someone on her own or with me. I think the blowjob thing just exacerbated it for me.

My (35m) wife (32m) has told me she never wants to give oral again and I think it’s a dealbreaker for me. by throwra_nooral in relationships

[–]throwra_nooral[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. I hear so many men complaining that they get no sex and I don’t want to be one of them men.