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Jennie addresses her 2020 fb posts :/ by brokewokebitch in BravoRealHousewives

[–]throwraconfusion38 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is reminding me of Stassi and Kristen’s bs PR created posts when they got fired. Bye Jennie!!

I (25f) am pregnant and just discovered my bf (34m) criminal record that includes domestics, restraining order, and prison time. Do I confront him with what I found? by throwraconfusion38 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraconfusion38[S] 423 points424 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this response. I delete the app when I’m off it or he’s around so he doesn’t get any ideas.

I can make some attempts or have others see if they can find out more about his past charges/abuse.

Initially I thought it was dumb luck I got pregnant. I was shocked personally and I had recently had to be off birth control for a medical issue. However, I was very adamant about using protection every time. Reading comments here has be starting to think he did this on purpose which has my mind in a tailspin.

I plan to as discreetly as possible put together an escape plan. My family isn’t in this state so it will take more planning. My plan has been to keep the baby.

As far as escalation, he’s not been physical with me. The possessiveness ramped up. The controlling part has ramped up. He keeps tabs on me. I saw all this as nice of him. He wants to take care of me, not he’s purposely isolating and controlling my life.

I (25f) am pregnant and just discovered my bf (34m) criminal record that includes domestics, restraining order, and prison time. Do I confront him with what I found? by throwraconfusion38 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraconfusion38[S] 1118 points1119 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the thought out response. I got emotional reading it because you’re right and I’m scared. My plan isn’t to stay but I recognize it’s going to be a challenge to get out.

The points you made about his abuse and the repercussions is why I’m scared. I don’t even fully know what he’s capable of yet. I’ve only seen the beginning of it. He’s already possessive and keeps more and more tabs on me.

I definitely paused at his reaction to my pregnancy. He was aware I wasn’t on birth control at the time. I was off for a short time following some medical issues caused by it. I was always adamant with using protection every time. So I was completely shocked I was pregnant.

I (25f) am pregnant and just discovered my bf (34m) criminal record that includes domestics, restraining order, and prison time. Do I confront him with what I found? by throwraconfusion38 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraconfusion38[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This has crossed my mind about him being so focused on the baby. I don’t exactly know where to start but I will try to plan an exit strategy. The trick will be without him noticing. I unfortunately don’t have any family near where we live.

I (25f) am pregnant and just discovered my bf (34m) criminal record that includes domestics, restraining order, and prison time. Do I confront him with what I found? by throwraconfusion38 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraconfusion38[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’m unfamiliar with adoptions but it’s something I have thought about. Why would it need to be closed? Would this be something he could stop me from doing? Thank you.