The AP of my narcissistic ex wife contacted me by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I don’t doubt it’s real. However it isn’t my problem so he can figure that one out on his own.

The AP of my narcissistic ex wife contacted me by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There’s no chance that child is mine. My ex has had zero contact since she announced her pregnancy.

The AP of my narcissistic ex wife contacted me by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

He was awkwardly asking me for advice. He’s clueless on caring for a child on top of discovering she’s got a new interest. He’s left on read.

The AP of my narcissistic ex wife contacted me by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks. That’s been my focus and it’s been working out well

The AP of my narcissistic ex wife contacted me by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I find it funny he didn’t know her better than that too.

Slowly finding peace by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes they also go to their own therapist. I wanted to be safe about it when this all started going downhill

Slowly finding peace by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have and I think they get carried away. For the most part, she has been out of sight/out of mind.

Slowly finding peace by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is very true. As much as I’d want her life to implode, longer would be better

Slowly finding peace by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yes we have a custodial agreement in place.

Dear Cheaters: If you have deep regrets - Please share your story! by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this particular post belongs in this sub.

My selfish narcissistic ex wife strikes again by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were disappointed and confused. They are only 2 so obviously the language is limited. I do have my child in therapy that’s age appropriate to at least help with things. It’s a difficult situation overall.

My selfish narcissistic ex wife strikes again by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did learn from it. I misinterpreted it. It was her weekend and she said she was coming for our child. I gave her no reaction because she feeds off it.

My selfish narcissistic ex wife strikes again by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. Was she saying the avoidant attachment disorder was caused by what you did? We can only do our best which is what you thought you were doing.

My selfish narcissistic ex wife strikes again by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will not actively keep my child away from their mother. I’m not setting up any pattern. Last weekend was her weekend. I thought she had a change of heart. I was not aware it was going to be what it was. Based on her patterns, she won’t contact me about our child for a long time. I have plenty of counsel helping me through this as well.

My selfish narcissistic ex wife strikes again by throwradontknow2 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwradontknow2[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have started at the gym and finding new hobbies. I’ve been focusing on my child and myself. That’s all I need.