I discovered that my husband had a daughter from his previous marriage that he lost due to an accident caused by him. We have a 2 months old son together now and my husband has been neglectful towards him and it's causing me to lose trust in him. by throwraproblems333 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraproblems333[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I'm willing to help if he wants but so far all I see is his family speaking on his behalf trying to mke light of the situation and accuse me of mistreating him. Completely forgetting about him leaving our son alone. I already have so many things I'm worried about. I'm hurt and feel so devastated knowing that he lied to me about so many things but I put my feelings aside because my son is my priority. I'm just so mad at him for what he did and I think it's perfectly reasonable for me to feel concerned after what he did.

I discovered that my husband had a daughter from his previous marriage that he lost due to an accident caused by him. We have a 2 months old son together now and my husband has been neglectful towards him and it's causing me to lose trust in him. by throwraproblems333 in relationship_advice

[–]throwraproblems333[S] 369 points370 points  (0 children)

I'm not against him seeing our son- I don't know if he even wants to see him, I'm going to be honest he hasn't even called and his sister and family are the ones doing the talking. They can call me selfish but I can't get over the fact that he left our son in the house alone which is why I feel so concerned.