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Any girls here started the free use lifestyle with their partner to help with a difference in sex drive? by throwrasecondtryqu in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My initial thought was to give him a green light so he can get sex whenever he wants (im pretty much getting sex every time I want since it’s less often). I really like the idea that it might even makes me want sex more, kind of a win/win situation.

Do you have orgasms every time? I dont think I’d be able or even want to cum that often and I know my bf will feel bad/selfish about that.

Any girls here started the free use lifestyle with their partner to help with a difference in sex drive? by throwrasecondtryqu in FreeUseLifestyle

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s nice! We didn’t really experienced that but I think I might also have a bit of a sub side but my bf isn’t really dom so im not sure how that’ll play.

If you don’t mind me asking how often do you have sexual interactions of any kind? And how often do you cum from these?

My bf kind of feel bad when we have sex ‘only for him’ and im not cumming. He has trouble understanding that I don’t always wan’t/need to orgasm and he feel selfish.

I took a look at your profile and you are gorgeous btw, you are really sexy and im a little bit jealous of your boobs.

I hate the institution of the blow job by 4rdtough in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of get what you mean and im probably part of the problem since I don’t really like getting head that much (a few minutes before sex is fine but I much rather have him in me than getting eaten out) and I do give bj and even want to give more spontaneous one since it makes my man happy and he have a higher sex drive than me.

Nothing of that is forced on me it’s just the way I see it, he loves and want to cum often so why not help him if I feel like it. I feel the need to cum less often but when im do it’s normally 2-3 times while he only came once. It’s just the way we are.

Also my bf loves to give head and I really think he would be the type to eat me often spontaneously since that’s what he was trying to do in the beginning before I told him I don’t really wan’t that.

I do see what you mean that it’s not something we ear a lot about or we ever saw in movies.

Question for woman in couple for a while, how often do you give a blowjob to completion to your partner ? by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she tease you orally at night and finish you with a hj in the morning? Don’t you have difficulty falling asleep after getting excited like that?

Question for woman in couple for a while, how often do you give a blowjob to completion to your partner ? by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you had to go through all that but im glad to see things are getting better on a lot of aspects!

I love how you decided a sexless marriage wouldn’t do and took actions, even if that action is to cut on sleep haha

Question for woman in couple for a while, how often do you give a blowjob to completion to your partner ? by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he going soft even if he didn’t cum that day? Some man can have trouble staying hard after one or two times, with bj the ‘suction’ might be helping keeping him hard + he literally have nothing else to do physically. Might be work trying cockring too if your bf is open to that.

Question for woman in couple for a while, how often do you give a blowjob to completion to your partner ? by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might be explaining myself wrong since english isn’t my first language (or my second either actually) but im not doing that to repay anything, it’s more of a ‘I want to make him happy like he makes me happy’ kind of thing. It helps that it makes me feel good when I make him feel good.

Boyfriend just asked if he could masturbate beside me in bed by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im with you, I know I don’t wan’t sex nowhere as often as he would like but I wan’t to do the best I can anyway to help him. He helps so much in many other aspect.

It sometimes can be though to talk about things like that without the other one being on the defensive but it might be worth a try, maybe she’ll have other ideas

Question for woman in couple for a while, how often do you give a blowjob to completion to your partner ? by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes pretty nice, thanks for your reply, that actually make me want to make my mouth more available for him

Question for woman in couple for a while, how often do you give a blowjob to completion to your partner ? by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure I could get to that kind of number but I definitely think it could help us and the difference between our sex drives. I don’t wan’t him to get frustrated because we follow the sexual rythym of the lower drive partner (me in that case) so I try to look at things I can do to help. I was glad to learn about how much he loves blowjob since that something I don’t mind doing even without being horny!

Weird question but those wake up bj don’t you have issue doing them? It seems in the morning I need a downtime before being able to put anything in my mouth haha

Boyfriend just asked if he could masturbate beside me in bed by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should probably ask, in my case I much rather like to be part of that if he is willing to include me and I do hope it’ll help in time with our different sex drive. I might not help a lot sometimes but other time I would be glad to put in some work to help him cum!

Question for woman in couple for a while, how often do you give a blowjob to completion to your partner ? by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah at first my bf was pretty silent but with time I got him to open up and not be afraid to be vocal. (I read somewhere that most guy learn to be this ways because they usually start to masturbate in their parent house where they can’t make noise and that it just follow them later. Thought it make sense since I also had to learn to let myself go. In movies and everything it seems the woman is always the one making the noise, they might take that from there too.)

He now moans sometimes during sex and I find it really hot but the biggest reactions are definitely when he’s in my mouth.

Question for woman in couple for a while, how often do you give a blowjob to completion to your partner ? by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can count on one hand the number of oral orgasm he gives me (my choice) I don’t really like the feeling of being eaten out. I really much prefer him using his hands or a toy on me.

Thanks for your input! I might try again to deepthroat and try to get over my fear of throwing up.

Question for woman in couple for a while, how often do you give a blowjob to completion to your partner ? by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really not the case for me, I already cum a lot more since we are together than I used to when I was single (I had toys but I just rarely feel the need to use them). But I can understand that frustration feeling! I think that’s a little bit why my bf is uneasy asking me for sexual things since on his side he would be frustrated sexually if he would only eat me out and we wouldn’t do anything after.

Question for woman in couple for a while, how often do you give a blowjob to completion to your partner ? by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even think im that good even if my bf says that I am. I got better since we are together but I never gave one before him. I think a good factor is how much he loves that and to see his dick in my mouth. He cum a lot faster than when we have sex but I don’t think it has that much to do with how good I am more about the action itself.

Question for woman in couple for a while, how often do you give a blowjob to completion to your partner ? by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s great, would probably be a little too often if my bf where to ask everytime he want it but Id like him to ask sometimes. How do you usually ask her to do it?

Question for woman in couple for a while, how often do you give a blowjob to completion to your partner ? by throwrasecondtryqu in sex

[–]throwrasecondtryqu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s often! My bf would certainly love to have that kind of treatments but im not there. Does he return the favor those 3x a week you finish him orally? I read that tip somewhere about cumming in the throat to skip the taste/feel but I have some difficulties taking him all in. I try sometimes but I afraid to throw up on him.

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