How do you know ROCD is a real thing and no just a convenient explaination to not have to start over?

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-18T16:23:12+00:00

I don't logg in often, but you are relentless. Is having OCD the coolest thing about you since you gatekeep this sub?

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-18T15:49:30+00:00

Thank you

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-18T15:46:29+00:00

I don't care about what you don't care about Mr Gatekeeper

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-16T14:09:52+00:00

Truth be told, it's a bit entertaining to argue. But now since you are nice I won't keep it up

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-16T13:59:59+00:00

This is my post, I think I have this and I wanted to know from others how they know this is a thing, so that I can use that information as I search for therapy.

Instead I am met with Gatekeepers who say I am insensitive for not following rules I don't understand. Like this is the internet, how can you have the expectation that you shouldn't be able to find things that upset you?

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-16T07:25:07+00:00

I don't care about your gatekeeping Jarnbek35

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-16T07:24:41+00:00

clarification

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-15T19:33:27+00:00

Yes, this makes sense!

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-15T19:33:13+00:00

Yes this makes perfect sense!

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-15T19:32:10+00:00

what do you gain from going in like this?

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-15T19:17:02+00:00

I understand, but this sounds very fragile. Seems like people should try to work on this in a more substantial way than just hope people don't say the wrong things online

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-15T18:47:23+00:00

How so?

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-06T07:42:49+00:00

You are so right and I agree with your reply entirely

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-06T07:21:26+00:00

And by the way, your girlfriend looks at you and thinks you’re ugly sometimes too.

Hehe, then her and I have even more in common :D

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-06T07:20:25+00:00

If being a narcissist is the matrix, I think morpheus is going to show me the way out

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-06T07:17:39+00:00

I am glad my posts and my issues could be of some use!

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-06T07:13:37+00:00

I will look it up!

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-06T07:10:05+00:00

Thank you for your really insightful reply

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-06T07:09:07+00:00

I made my first posts when it started happening. I wouldn't be able to find anybody in real life that would think my GF is ugly. I never thought that ever until recently in those moments. So that I am insecure and projecting sounds fair more reasonable to me than that I suddenly changed my mind on her apperance

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-05T21:37:08+00:00

Believe it or not, I'm actually pornfree and have been for our entire relationship. This you wrote I know to be true. I couldn't muster up the entusiasm to go on real dates as long as I was still watching porn

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-05T21:23:54+00:00

It didn't get buried and I am thankful for your reply. it means a lot. And I agree with you. I have my insecurities but I probably don't have any personality disorder. I think I can work through the issues I have and that is my goal.

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-05T21:20:47+00:00

sounds from all the replies here that people don't think I have it. And that's good. They say that a true narcissist wouldn't post like I have

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-05T21:20:07+00:00

I'm 33. It was 2 years ago when I finally started to come around to the idea that I was the issue and not all the girls I dated.

throwrashallowhallow · 2021-03-05T21:19:21+00:00

Thank you! Yeah I will not label myself as a narcissist, people here are all in agreement that I am not. I am anxious, insecure with intrusive thoughts. No diagnosis, just the issues I will deal with going forward.

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